My marriage ended because of my mistakes, nowadays I see this and I have changed a lot and grown a lot as a person, but my ex-wife's family is messing everything up and they don't believe me, so much so that we talk in secret without her family knowing, I would like help to get her back in some way and for the family to accept us back, I have already done "sympathy" with everything I know, I live in Brazil, Rio de Janeiro, I accept any type of support.
I'm sorry for you, that sort of manipulation the family is doing seems terrible. Since you are asking here, however, I'm guessing you want to try with a ritual or magick of some kind rather than trying to get sympathy. So here is a quick idea for a ritual with candles and a few sigils for planetary magic.
I came up with this as a variation of another completely different ritual, but the other one worked so this one should as well, just the day and the planetary intelligence used changes.
-Day of Venus, which is Friday, check for the hour of Venus as well for that day if you want to increase the chance of success, depending of your location it will be different.
-Sigils of Venus and it's planetary intelligence, kamea, etc would help as well, pretty much anything that is associated with the planet. A few ideas here: color is green or pink, metal is copper, gem is malachite if you want to spend the money, incense specific to venus you can propably buy on amazon these days... You can find info about the kamea and the planetary intelligence, Hagiel, in some of the books present already in this forum, or in the internet even if you want. I take mine from one called Ceremonial Magic that I got from this forum originally.
Items:
-The materials already mentioned related to the planet.
-The candle, preferably of the color associated with the planet. Candle holder too.
-A cable or something to "tie" the person to you.
-I would also include a photo of yours and a photo of your ex.
-If you are using the sigils, kamea etc, draw them on paper and put them around yourself for the ritual.
-A paper where you will have written beforehand your statement, namely getting your ex back.
Steps I would do:
1)Banishing ritual, like LBRP.
2)Place the two photos and the candle close to each other, light the candle.
3)Read the statement, it should be something like "Venus, make Hagiel bring X back to me, tie her to me so that she has to come back etc..."
In a different ritual I saw the message was then burned in the cnadle and the ashes fell on top of the picture being used, you can try this as well.
4)Visualize her coming back to you.
5)Tie both photos with the cable, put it under the candle, let it burn until it's consumed. Burn the message now so the ashes fall on top of the pictures that should now be below the candle..
6)I would then get the ashes with the photos still tied and bury them with a box or similar close to your ex's house.
7)Wait. Hopefully the spell should make her come back to you according to the intent you gave during the ritual.