[Help] Spell to reignite lust towards a specific person

[JGVDRG]

Alright, this is an embarrassing request.
I'm currently married and we love each other, but the physical chemistry and lust is gradually fading away, and I say it specially for myself. She's okay with routine, I'm not. There is love, mutual respect, kindness, comfort, but little to no fire. Day-to-day BS has utterly weakened our flame, so I'd like to kickstart it directly with magick.

I need recommendations of rituals, spells and/or crafts that could ignite the immense lust I once felt when I first met her. Even basic models of it. I really need to materialize the craft, instead of keeping it strictly mental or wishful.
Not like love binding or something, since we're stably together, it's not even something directed to her or to control her behavior. This is 100% for me. I want to use magick to really up my lust for her so I can get our full momentum going.

PS: If you're inclined to come up with generic internet counseling like "buy a red latex bodysuit", "go to a therapist" or "watch porn together", I'd respectfully ask you to keep it to yourself. There was already a lot of effort to do this the "recommended" ways that obviously didn't work, otherwise I wouldn't be requesting it on WF. Thanks in advance.

 

[Aeternus]

First of all, my friend, it's a shame to not request rather than to request.

Second of all, there are various things you can do to reignite passion. Either White Magic or Black Magic way (as per what I can best advise you at).

Angelic Way (White Magic way):

You need: A jar: choose a clay cup or vessel or container with a lid that fits completely • Honey (if you are vegan you can substitute a honey for a vegan alternative such as molasses, vegan sugar or maple syrup) Pens or paints to decorate the jar Dried roots, herbs or flowers: choose any or a mixture of the following: cardamom, cinnamon, red bell pepper, vanilla, basil, bay leaf jasmine, lavender, nutmeg, violet. The individual herbs can be found here . Alternatively, you can use a spell mix like this Attract Love herbal spell mix ◦ Parchment paper Pen Pink candle.

1.- Start by making sure your jar is clean. A simple way to do this is to soak it in salt water and then rinse and dry it.

2.- Then you can decorate it. Use pink and red colors to represent love. You can draw symbols on it or, if you wish, write in words you associate ◦ with love.

3.- Take your pen and paper and write the following love spell: With this spell I attract the person I am meant to be with With this spell I cast tonight A love will come, that for me is right

4.- Place the paper in the jar, add your chosen roots, herbs or dried flowers, then fll it with honey or your chosen sweetener. 5.- Place the pink candle on top of your honey jar and light it.

6.- Place the honey jar on your altar or a private place in your home Recharge the spel regularly. by placing another• candle over it and lighting it, or place a tea light over it.

Or, if this spell doesn't fit your case, recite these strong prayers to the Angels of Fire, especially the Angel of Fire Zaphkiel.

Close your eyes. Sit in stillness for a moment. Bring attention to your heart. Feel it beating in your chest. Notice its rhythm and speed. Match your breath to your heartbeat. Now bring attention to your sacral chakra. Notice its rhythm and speed. Listen closely. Can you hear its voice yearning to be heard? Can you feel its subtle pulse pulling you toward your desires? Lean into that feeling now. Notice how it feels to move into your desires, the expressive freedom that comes to you in a rush! As you enjoy this connection, a warm glow begins to form below your navel. It spreads slowly to permeate your entire midsection and pelvic area. Any unrealized, unexplored passions inside you are rising through this glow. You sense a presence joining these passions, an inspiring wellspring of sacred expression. It is Archangel Zaphkiel!

Repeat out loud this intention: I’m honoured to meet you Zaphkiel! I am an open vessel, ready to learn how to access my inner sacred lover and am so grateful for your unending passionate energy! Please show me the depth of my own passion, my own sensuality, in a tangible, verifiable way now. Thank you for making it so!

If you wish, take this time now to add a personal intention for this experiment.

Zaphkiel’s energy spreads throughout your entire body now, and you are filled with anticipation! When you are ready, gently open your eyes.


Now, the Black magic / Demonic way: You can invoke the Demon Sitri and ask him for inciting sensuality and passion. Though I would advise to not rush to a demon as they are tricky.

One additional thing that you can do to restore energy, besides the two tips I gave you would be to potentially check your astral body (aura) for any astral parasites and energy vampires who may draw you out of your passion

 

[Slytherin]

Alright, this is an embarrassing request.
I'm currently married and we love each other, but the physical chemistry and lust is gradually fading away, and I say it specially for myself. She's okay with routine, I'm not. There is love, mutual respect, kindness, comfort, but little to no fire. Day-to-day BS has utterly weakened our flame, so I'd like to kickstart it directly with magick.

I need recommendations of rituals, spells and/or crafts that could ignite the immense lust I once felt when I first met her. Even basic models of it. I really need to materialize the craft, instead of keeping it strictly mental or wishful.
Not like love binding or something, since we're stably together, it's not even something directed to her or to control her behavior. This is 100% for me. I want to use magick to really up my lust for her so I can get our full momentum going.

PS: If you're inclined to come up with generic internet counseling like "buy a red latex bodysuit", "go to a therapist" or "watch porn together", I'd respectfully ask you to keep it to yourself. There was already a lot of effort to do this the "recommended" ways that obviously didn't work, otherwise I wouldn't be requesting it on WF. Thanks in advance.

I would summon Asmodeus, the demon of lust or Satanachia, as according to the Grand Grimoire, he has the power to subjugate all women and girls, and to do with them whatever he wishes

 

[Yazata]

ignite

This immediately makes me think of the spell / ritual in New Avatar Power to Rekindle the flame of Love.

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Can't hurt

 

[JGVDRG]

First of all, my friend, it's a shame to not request rather than to request.

Second of all, there are various things you can do to reignite passion. Either White Magic or Black Magic way (as per what I can best advise you at).

Angelic Way (White Magic way):

You need: A jar: choose a clay cup or vessel or container with a lid that fits completely • Honey (if you are vegan you can substitute a honey for a vegan alternative such as molasses, vegan sugar or maple syrup) Pens or paints to decorate the jar Dried roots, herbs or flowers: choose any or a mixture of the following: cardamom, cinnamon, red bell pepper, vanilla, basil, bay leaf jasmine, lavender, nutmeg, violet. The individual herbs can be found here . Alternatively, you can use a spell mix like this Attract Love herbal spell mix ◦ Parchment paper Pen Pink candle.

1.- Start by making sure your jar is clean. A simple way to do this is to soak it in salt water and then rinse and dry it.

2.- Then you can decorate it. Use pink and red colors to represent love. You can draw symbols on it or, if you wish, write in words you associate ◦ with love.

3.- Take your pen and paper and write the following love spell: With this spell I attract the person I am meant to be with With this spell I cast tonight A love will come, that for me is right

4.- Place the paper in the jar, add your chosen roots, herbs or dried flowers, then fll it with honey or your chosen sweetener. 5.- Place the pink candle on top of your honey jar and light it.

6.- Place the honey jar on your altar or a private place in your home Recharge the spel regularly. by placing another• candle over it and lighting it, or place a tea light over it.

Or, if this spell doesn't fit your case, recite these strong prayers to the Angels of Fire, especially the Angel of Fire Zaphkiel.

Close your eyes. Sit in stillness for a moment. Bring attention to your heart. Feel it beating in your chest. Notice its rhythm and speed. Match your breath to your heartbeat. Now bring attention to your sacral chakra. Notice its rhythm and speed. Listen closely. Can you hear its voice yearning to be heard? Can you feel its subtle pulse pulling you toward your desires? Lean into that feeling now. Notice how it feels to move into your desires, the expressive freedom that comes to you in a rush! As you enjoy this connection, a warm glow begins to form below your navel. It spreads slowly to permeate your entire midsection and pelvic area. Any unrealized, unexplored passions inside you are rising through this glow. You sense a presence joining these passions, an inspiring wellspring of sacred expression. It is Archangel Zaphkiel!

Repeat out loud this intention: I’m honoured to meet you Zaphkiel! I am an open vessel, ready to learn how to access my inner sacred lover and am so grateful for your unending passionate energy! Please show me the depth of my own passion, my own sensuality, in a tangible, verifiable way now. Thank you for making it so!

If you wish, take this time now to add a personal intention for this experiment.

Zaphkiel’s energy spreads throughout your entire body now, and you are filled with anticipation! When you are ready, gently open your eyes.


Now, the Black magic / Demonic way: You can invoke the Demon Sitri and ask him for inciting sensuality and passion. Though I would advise to not rush to a demon as they are tricky.

One additional thing that you can do to restore energy, besides the two tips I gave you would be to potentially check your astral body (aura) for any astral parasites and energy vampires who may draw you out of your passion

Thank you very much! May the universe conspire on your behalf.

he has the power to subjugate all women and girls, and to do with them whatever he wishes

Thanks for the tip. In this case I wouldn't manipulate my partner's will or lust, only my own. Guess evoking Asmodeus would be a real overkill.

In short, I appreciate all the replies. May I be of help soon enough.

 

[Aeternus]

Thank you very much! May the universe conspire on your behalf.

May the Universe conspire on your behalf as well

 

[Mannimarco]

I need recommendations of rituals, spells and/or crafts that could ignite the immense lust I once felt when I first met her.

What kind of spell work do you have experience with? What are your good at? What do you want to do? Candles and herbs? Classic Chaos sigils? Angels, demons, dieties? What are your current beliefs and practices? What systems/entities are you working with?

 

[8Lou1]

hi there, i read you did 'some' ayahuasca back in the days. ive found that more people/males have similar issues afterwards. i did my own little research and it seems the plant likes community/groups. it also looks like it seeks other folks who did ayahuasca and puts them together. ever been to a nude beach/resort? people there also dont walk with a hard on all day. living with the acceptance of nudity as normal is strange to us westerners and feels like no lust. especially for men.

i have no clue how to solve it, but when i read what you write. my first thoughts are ok you are doing this for you, i wish you well. at the same time i go, but sex was together right, so why do you go alone? and then i remember how freaking annoying it is when you are forced by ayahuasca (or anything actually) to become a part of someone else and having to deal with that.

so even if you do this only for you and you are only asking spirits to help you , you are going to get the world involved and they have to become that external part of you, you lust for. i dont know the sensitivity of your spouse, but i know i hate it and notice it all. nothing i can do about it, so i accept. this might be similar with your spouse and to me it makes sense that you then loose Lust.

so in essence you have to become that manly man that says fuck it, give me a glass of testosterone. its why back in the days plato and his friends had loverboys besides their marriage. not saying you need to do a crowly, but in the loving you are a man sense, you need a man.

 

[JGVDRG]

What kind of spell work do you have experience with? What are your good at? What do you want to do? Candles and herbs? Classic Chaos sigils? Angels, demons, dieties? What are your current beliefs and practices? What systems/entities are you working with?

I answered you privately.

hi there, i read you did 'some' ayahuasca back in the days. ive found that more people/males have similar issues afterwards. i did my own little research and it seems the plant likes community/groups. it also looks like it seeks other folks who did ayahuasca and puts them together. ever been to a nude beach/resort? people there also dont walk with a hard on all day. living with the acceptance of nudity as normal is strange to us westerners and feels like no lust. especially for men.

i have no clue how to solve it, but when i read what you write. my first thoughts are ok you are doing this for you, i wish you well. at the same time i go, but sex was together right, so why do you go alone? and then i remember how freaking annoying it is when you are forced by ayahuasca (or anything actually) to become a part of someone else and having to deal with that.

so even if you do this only for you and you are only asking spirits to help you , you are going to get the world involved and they have to become that external part of you, you lust for. i dont know the sensitivity of your spouse, but i know i hate it and notice it all. nothing i can do about it, so i accept. this might be similar with your spouse and to me it makes sense that you then loose Lust.

so in essence you have to become that manly man that says fuck it, give me a glass of testosterone. its why back in the days plato and his friends had loverboys besides their marriage. not saying you need to do a crowly, but in the loving you are a man sense, you need a man.

Hey there. So, yeah, I've noticed strong shifts in my personal energy, including my libido, after passing all these years immersed in ayahuasca.
She's not from ayahuasca cults. I don't know if you're talking about an experience you've had or are currently having, but this is not the case. But I think I get what you say. I've spent a lot of time "naked" in the astral realms, merging my energy with other's, etc. And why go alone you say? Because she's okay with the same thing, I'm not. It's complicated. My will is whimsical, my temper is difficult and multipolar. She's apparently less complicated than that. So I can only see the problem in myself.

 

[Aeternus]

I answered you privately.

Hey there. So, yeah, I've noticed strong shifts in my personal energy, including my libido, after passing all these years immersed in ayahuasca.
She's not from ayahuasca cults. I don't know if you're talking about an experience you've had or are currently having, but this is not the case. But I think I get what you say. I've spent a lot of time "naked" in the astral realms, merging my energy with other's, etc. And why go alone you say? Because she's okay with the same thing, I'm not. It's complicated. My will is whimsical, my temper is difficult and multipolar. She's apparently less complicated than that. So I can only see the problem in myself.

I am sure you will improve yourself, bro . Time and luck shall be your keys from the multiple keys and occasions you shall have for development.

As for the "nakedness" in the astral, I did it some times as well. But eventually I prefer to rigorously scan who I merge with since yeah... some people have a heck of an energy to merge with .

 

[8Lou1]

Its indeed something i recognize and am also a bit (a lot) irritated about. For me it came as the story of osiris loosing his dick. I sort of left the story as i dont follow the blame as represented in western explanations. I ended up ordering ' the universe' to fucking give my spouse his dick back, cause i like sex with penetration and preferably with a human. And yes i had to make it that clear and smack everybodies head while i was at it.

i think a lot of it has to do with conquering and a safe homestead. for me the next step is talking more truth with my spouse and daring to step out of oldschool gender roles. (which i used to love) so thinking about that and staying within our own marital boundaries i again am at breaking taboos. daring to do something new, accepting i dont have to act like i need protection cause im a woman, etc. and also accepting that the world doesnt evolve around serving a dick. ( i researched MK - Ultra until it died on me) i found out that complying kills Lust and that daddy issues resolve.

i also love the ghede. a group of spirits from the voudou pantheon who are prone to make sexual jokes and can make your neighbor say naughty things, but it made me think about what is a 'good nice woman' and does my spouse want me nice or naughty? and what do i want? i learned we sometimes need a story, a build up towards something mentally sexy and new. and now im daring myself to accept the label milf without being too motherly which i actually find quite scary.

i dont think you need a spell, i think youre already there.....

 

[JGVDRG]

I am sure you will improve yourself, bro . Time and luck shall be your keys from the multiple keys and occasions you shall have for development.

Thanks again, pardner!

( i researched MK - Ultra until it died on me) i found out that complying kills Lust and that daddy issues resolve.

It's awful how the "right things" and the sort kills lust and certain issues ignite it. A major inconvenience, I'd say, but then again, social customs are meant to tame us, so...I don't even know what to say, lol. Hope you got your momentum.

 

[8Lou1]

he did, lol.

 

[Wintruz]

Take two candles of contrasting colour (gold or blue for male/active, silver or red for female/receptive). Anoint the "male" candle with your seminal fluid, anoint the other candle with your partner's fluid. Place the candles at opposite ends of a window sill.

Each night, light them for one hour and, at the end of that hour, blow them out and draw them one inch closer to each other. You can say a simple invocation as you light them, something like "From the depths of my Hidden Self, I draw forth the power of love that it might strengthen my loins". Do this every night until the candles meet in the middle of the window sill. When they do, keep them next to each other but change their positions each night, as if they were dancing with each other. Continue to light them for an hour each night until they've burnt out entirely. When they have, mould the waxy remnants together and keep it in a secret place.

Also important, stop masturbating. At this moment, you need to move that sexual energy into the relationship. If you let it out in other ways, you'll short circuit the energy between you and her.

 

[JGVDRG]

Take two candles of contrasting colour (gold or blue for male/active, silver or red for female/receptive). Anoint the "male" candle with your seminal fluid, anoint the other candle with your partner's fluid. Place the candles at opposite ends of a window sill.

Each night, light them for one hour and, at the end of that hour, blow them out and draw them one inch closer to each other. You can say a simple invocation as you light them, something like "From the depths of my Hidden Self, I draw forth the power of love that it might strengthen my loins". Do this every night until the candles meet in the middle of the window sill. When they do, keep them next to each other but change their positions each night, as if they were dancing with each other. Continue to light them for an hour each night until they've burnt out entirely. When they have, mould the waxy remnants together and keep it in a secret place.

Also important, stop masturbating. At this moment, you need to move that sexual energy into the relationship. If you let it out in other ways, you'll short circuit the energy between you and her.

Very good! Thanks for the practical tip.

 

[pixel_fortune]

Maybe this is something a servitor would be good for? They're good for things you want to be ongoing. You'd kinda be creating a little cupid to follow you around and shoot you with lust arrows every now and again. Feeding it would be easy - it gets a little of the energy that gets created through sex with your wife.

There are heaps of guides to creating servitors out there, but two good ones are (a section of) Aidan Wachter's Six Ways and John Kreiter's guide (his web version is fine; only get the ebook if you're struggling to understand it and you want the FAQ).

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Another option, if you're not aphantasic, is Raziel's Paths of Power

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Some angels/pathworkings with relevant powers
Book 1 (Shem Angels)

• Yeliel ("improves relationships through increased love and better sex"
• Mihael ("brings more passion to sex")

Book 2 (archangels & angels of the 42 letter name)

• Haniel (archangel of Venus)
• Zuriel (increases sex drive, helps in all matters of sex)
• Ravchiel (angel of passion, brings fire back to a relationship)

(Just have a look at their entries and choose the one who speaks to you more or whose Pathworking you like the sound of more)

You could even combine the approaches by creating a servitor, then doing a Raziel Pathworking and asking an angel to guide or empower the servitor

 

[JGVDRG]

A quick feedback on how things turned down after absorbing the information given in this thread.

I've received an intuition about candle magic, more or less like the following quote:

Take two candles of contrasting colour (gold or blue for male/active, silver or red for female/receptive). Anoint the "male" candle with your seminal fluid, anoint the other candle with your partner's fluid. Place the candles at opposite ends of a window sill.

Actually, I have seen the whole ritual I'd have to do in a dream-like state, which goes like this.

Two candles, one blue (myself or the masculine principle, anointed with my fluid) and one pink (her or the feminine principle, anointed with her fluid), forming the top of an inverted triangle. In the base, a white candle (anointed with an oil made with some sort of venusian herb, I thought a rose) dedicated to Venus. In front of the white candle, a pink-quartz rock with the symbol of Venus painted in blue. Each material must be charged with it's respective force through meditation.

A string of her hair forming the triangle, tied on each candle, with a small vessel with an apple covered in honey in the middle. Some sort of exaltation of Venus was happening. Various incenses were lit, I don't know exactly which type. In my altar was also a wonderful white marble statue of Venus/Aphrodite (which I don't have yet, unfortunately). I'd have to keep my celibate during two weeks before the ritual, and try to maintain elevated thoughts. The ritual should be done during a full moon night. A beautiful violin music should be playing during the ritual. After the ritual is done, I must make love with my wife. Then both of us should eat the apple, and afterwards I should deliver the organic remains of the ritual to a river with a waterfall. After all that, I should keep the white candle (bigger one week candles) offerings and exalt Venus daily anointed with this oil until the next full moon. The remains would have to be dispatched in the river as well.

This, in my vision/dream, would be the most appropriate ritual for the purpose I'm searching. Which was beautiful and unexpected.
The only problem I have is to involve her in this (which would be absolutely necessary for the intended success), because she is completely freaked out by any sorts of magic and occultism, to the point of not being able to sleep, having bad dreams, etc., simply by hearing or seeing what I'm doing. laughs in panic I'm having to craft in the middle of the night locked in my spare room like I'm a witch in medieval fucking France. I was told (in the vision) that there's no way I could "fix" this annoyance only by myself. It would only amplify my libido in general, and it would impact my marriage in an even worse way. Like it would be sexual energy let loose, with no aim.
I've also grasped the fact that I'm not the source of all hindrance in this, and with no doubt, the process I'm experiencing is a two way road. And to be honest, I'm trying, but she really is not willing to participate in any of this. I have been open with her, discussed all this, but she thinks energy and magic are bullshit. Also she's scared of it. Go figure.
There it is. After exposing myself way too much in this forum, I've understood a simple fact of human relationship. I'm still going to try to gradually draw her into magic so we can do this amazing ritual, but I'm really not much for tinkering with other's will (specially people I care about) and I'm tending to let the natural alchemy take its place.

Many thanks again to all of you.

 

[Bluesoft]

Appreciate your courage to ask.

Feel welcome all the time.

I would suggest, buy Jasmin, Rose, ginseng and honey.

Ask the help of these plants i mean request the help from them.

Boil water and put all of the together and drink tea spending time or watching a movie, whatever but drink the tea together. The properties of those plants will help your relationship but talk to them.