It is possible to conjure such primordial elemental distinctions in order to experience their dissolution (by using them together as a tool of sorts) in a process of reversion arriving at selfless knowledge of inherent wholeness.
Experiencing such Virtue of Receptivity might unavoidably be termed an understanding of the Creative, as the Creative's primal organization encompasses particulate polar distinction subsuming within wave energy [This is knowledge itself; there is no thing]. So, you might typify the Creative in terms of femme, as such, but yin and yang swirling about within her vortex are what they are (created, and therefore a polar relationship in action). It's just the way it is and no one knows why it is the way it is or why it is possible to experience reversion in terms of any realization (beyond the OPs subject), to experience selfless nonorigination. Upon returning, one must become its living expression.
Furthermore, it is possible to project categorical typification in the aftermath of realization, for the purposes of recreational philosophical speculation as to what sex nonorigination is, ie: progenitor/progenitrix. But let's not, because it is not. Why? Because there is always that which is beyond.
Since, per the OP, there is a decided (and properly) discriminatory distinction towards the femme aspect, it should be noted that "getting there", requires seeing a referential sameness "drawing from below", in order to blend (as milk and water). This is because knowledge is truly being, and knowing such, exacts that much, in terms of the process of reversion to seeing the nonorigination of human spiritual potential, as is.
So there is a necessary reason for employing the polar aspect in the first place, in terms of its (the Creative's) functional organization, not due to any sexual bias per se, and neither can we discount (or forget) its inherent potential, because the Creative, as well as the created, are, by virtue of an ineffably living aware potential, an inherently inconceivable selfless knowing, awake without beginning.
All such devices, as per the subject of the OP, are signposts along the way. When you see a stop sign or an arrow, wouldn't it be sheer foolishness to fixate on the sign itself? But I wouldn't begrudge the culturally derivative scenery along the way either.