A deified demon. What was once a simple class of evil spirits that caused miscarriages, the death of newborns, the death of pregnant women, the death of husbands, and the end of marriages, remained a prominent figure in Judaism for millennia. Until they invented that she was the same entity as the "First Eve." I believe that entities can gain power through worship, and today she can be considered a goddess. Many people see her as a "mother goddess," welcoming, etc. Perhaps she gained these aspects due to the worship that evokes these qualities. But I think she continues to hold her original essence as her strongest characteristic.
Her cult of feminine liberation and rebellion certainly provided an aspect of freedom for her. However, I would say that she is an entity that benefits from your downfall or your success. If you think on a career-focused woman who hates the idea of marriage because she wants to enjoy her youth, you are following this goddess. If you misuse your freedom, become addicted to drugs, or have unprotected sex (causing diseases and abortions), you are also following this entity. It will give you rebellion and freedom. It wants you alone, without marriage or children, either because you've lost control of your life or because it's succeeding the way you wanted.
She is an entity that seduces the innocent, gives them what they want without the wisdom to use it, and reaps the rewards.
Don't get me wrong, she can help a devotee marry and have children, as she can accept taking a small step in this generation to take bigger steps in the next. I'm not saying that a woman can only be happy by marrying a man and having children, but I am saying that Lilith has always represented the end of this practice. She represents the freedom to do whatever you want, but for millennia she also represented the suffering of losing your family, your children, and destroying the structure of what you desire.
For me, she's a great entity to work with, perform magic, and everything else. You just can't be naive; you need to know what you're getting into and be very clear about the kind of influence you'll allow her to have on your life