Advice on demons

[jacobogrinberg777]

Hey everyone, as you can see from the title, I’m looking for help to find out which demon can assist with the following tasks. I’ve already read a couple of books, but I would also value your opinions and experiences. The task is simply to make two parents have a different opinion of me—they aren't mine. I'm just looking for them to accept me, and I don't mind if they have to be bent to my will, since what I'm ultimately looking for is for them to change their negative ideas about me into positive ones.

Thank you very much for your time in reading this.

 

[Saint]

I'll get a lot of hate for this, and comment 'no one asked your opinion, there was a question asked', but this is the typical moment when one should chose to grow and understand themselves as a person instead of trying to make the world to do that for them. Yes, it seems far more comfortable expecting everyone to see you as you want them to see you, without you having to change.

This is the moment when you should ask yourself some very pressing questions, before you even proceed.
Why do you even care about what they think of you in the first place? - It's a question you should be able to answer for yourself.
Why they have a negative opinion on you? - Again, a question for yourself. Perhaps they are right about how they think of you, or perhaps, they just don't understand you, and you'll need more time and decent communication, quality time to help them see what is hidden.
Can't you change for the better to gain this desired positive view instead of spiritually brainwashing them into thinking for a short while? - One more to the homework.

The answer is: While it is not impossible to achieve this, it will not solve any of your issues, and it will not be genuine love and acceptance towards you. Remember, It'll be but an illusion without honest acceptance, without honest positivity and affection; a lie, to please yourself, and eventually, it'll get challenged by reality, fall apart and fade. Why? Because you won't become a different person, and they'll see it.
ㅤYes, it is possible to change their view for a while, then bump into a brickwall, and have that collapse, sometimes sooner than later, leaving behind more damage than before.

Demons, by the way, can and possibly will deliver this for you (if you have something to offer), but the consequences won't be pleasant, and they won't apologise for the aftermath. I've seen this happening countless time, both with parents, relatives and exes.
ㅤIf you want to brainwash people and get a bigger slap into the face eventually, instead of you turning better, or perhaps learning how to step out of others' shadows and craving of their acceptance, you have every tools out there, have fun.

 

[Ohana]

Hey everyone, as you can see from the title, I’m looking for help to find out which demon can assist with the following tasks. I’ve already read a couple of books, but I would also value your opinions and experiences. The task is simply to make two parents have a different opinion of me—they aren't mine. I'm just looking for them to accept me, and I don't mind if they have to be bent to my will, since what I'm ultimately looking for is for them to change their negative ideas about me into positive ones.

Thank you very much for your time in reading this.

I know one so far and thats Paimon. You might get consequences for doing this like the other poster said. So be warned. Now I'm talk to them.

I'll get a lot of hate for this, and comment 'no one asked your opinion, there was a question asked', but this is the typical moment when one should chose to grow and understand themselves as a person instead of trying to make the world to do that for them. Yes, it seems far more comfortable expecting everyone to see you as you want them to see you, without you having to change.

No. This is the perspective of someone part of the dominant culture. Sometimes maybe it is on you to change for the better and learn and grow. But with this logic how do you deal with Racism? Do you just change so much to become the absolute standard of perfection? No. Sometimes the world needs changing too.

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This can also apply to misogyny and other topics of the like

 

[Saint]

No. This is the perspective of someone part of the dominant culture. Sometimes maybe it is on you to change for the better and learn and grow. But with this logic how do you deal with Racism? Do you just change so much to become the absolute standard of perfection? No. Sometimes the world needs changing too.

What 'racism' has to do with my own life as an individual? The world is changing whether you want it or not. It will change to directions you may love or hate. Will you sit, and wait, or you start living your life, taking responsibility that belong to you and you only, or find excuses and blame anyone but yourself, while you wasting your time, and time is wasting you?

As a person, I don't care about racism, misogyny and whatever other topics, by the way. Not even the slightest. I don't try to change humanity to be a certain way, because it is not within my ability to do so. If you think you can pull it off, go for it.

I myself, I don't hate anyone (not even my sexual abusers or attempting kidnappers). I just accept that people are people, life is life, and it is not always easy, so you either stand up and do something for yourself (no one else is obliged, but yourself), or you can spend your time mourning a life you never lived.

I am not responsible for others nearly as close as I am responsible for myself.
I follow this main principle. I have no collective influence over humanity, nor society, but I can help people who find me, read me, or seek for me. If my duty would be to prune humanity from racism (or whatever else you dislike), I'd have given the ability to do so, but it is not. In the other hand, the ability to handle myself wholly, more than anything else around me is given, so I'm more than fine with focusing on myself, thank you.

 

[Ohana]

What 'racism' has to do with my own life as an individual? The world is changing whether you want it or not. It will change to directions you may love or hate. Will you sit, and wait, or you start living your life, taking responsibility that belong to you and you only, or find excuses and blame anyone but yourself, while you wasting your time, and time is wasting you?

I myself, I don't hate anyone (not even my sexual abusers or attempting kidnappers). I just accept that people are people, life is life, and it is not always easy, so you either stand up and do something for yourself (no one else is obliged, but yourself), or you can spend your time mourning a life you never lived.

I didn't say you should try to fix racism. You don't have to try to fix racism. I was just providing a counterexample since your logic was flawed.

I'm glad your able to move on with your life. If you don't want to be interested in that cause then thats fine. I am personally and others are so we're fine.

Thank you for your response but please do imply what I do not mean to imply. I truly do not mind what you do personally with your own life.

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Please do not laugh at my response. Or atleast provide why you are laughing

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For me it may seem now like there is no hope. That injustice will prevail but so long as I march to the beat of my own drum. So long as I keep going and persist that is enough.