[Help] Your thoughts on having children

[WisdomAddict]

Legacy or yet another soul/player plugged into matrix forced to playing the game ?
This thing was living rent free ok my head for more than a decade...
I used to don't like having my own children but now I'm exact opposite of what I thought I wanna have children but I really have to know everything about it about the consequences of my action of bringing another soul into the game...and how is this getting done on the other side...is there any book or any information I could read about this thing ?

 

[Morell]

Have to say that: Ugh, disgusting...

Also...
This is topic related to NDE, actually. You might want to search for the topic (and the book) "life between lives." That is probably the closes you can get to the certainty, but certainty is impossible when it comes to who comes when a baby is born. It is not only the soul that comes, but also the environment and new unique body, that shapes the person that the baby will be turning into...

 

[Mars]

Legacy or yet another soul/player plugged into matrix forced to playing the game ?
This thing was living rent free ok my head for more than a decade...
I used to don't like having my own children but now I'm exact opposite of what I thought I wanna have children but I really have to know everything about it about the consequences of my action of bringing another soul into the game...and how is this getting done on the other side...is there any book or any information I could read about this thing ?

Soul will incarnate one way or the other when it wants! Human body is not prerequisite. There's countless other beings in the universe or on earth. And never a shortage of vessels either or an surplus of souls.

 

[Amadeus]

"life between lives.

Michael Newton's books? I remember some titles. Journey of souls and a few more.

For as long as I can remember I've never wanted children. This kind of lifestyle isn't for me.
I can't imagine having to bother with them. All the noise, no more peace and quiet. Something disturbing and causing distress.
No matter are they young or older, they're always annoying, unwanted obligation.
I've observed people who suddenly decided to have them, nothing good. They're exhausted, tired, and always having to do something annoying. Every aspect of being a parent feels annoying.

There's some family I know, they're very religious and produce kids like factory. I pity them, it looks awful, not enough space either, they're in some small house.

Somewhere I read that the same people are born into your family, ancestors coming back. Some say it isn't always so.
There's probably something in Newton's books, I can't remember much anymore.

 

[Morell]

Michael Newton's books? I remember some titles. Journey of souls and a few more.

For as long as I can remember I've never wanted children. This kind of lifestyle isn't for me.
I can't imagine having to bother with them. All the noise, no more peace and quiet. Something disturbing and causing distress.
No matter are they young or older, they're always annoying, unwanted obligation.
I've observed people who suddenly decided to have them, nothing good. They're exhausted, tired, and always having to do something annoying. Every aspect of being a parent feels annoying.

There's some family I know, they're very religious and produce kids like factory. I pity them, it looks awful, not enough space either, they're in some small house.

Somewhere I read that the same people are born into your family, ancestors coming back. Some say it isn't always so.
There's probably something in Newton's books, I can't remember much anymore.

I don't remember the books well either, but I remember that they covered the topic.

I've heard the same, that ancestors return into family as a custom, but that it doesn't happen every time. No idea if it's true. But wouldn't be surprised if some groups of spirits did so in shared project.

Baby factories are wretched things. These families produce kids with quality of illegal dog breeding factories. Wretched consequence of brainwashing and/or psychosis, yet legal till something really bad happens. I pity the kids there. They did not choose to be there.

I believe that it is heathy to take it that none of us chooses how we get into this world. (how and where we are born) But it is for us to grow into moment where we can and do take responsibility for our live and live it as we can and want. And I have to rant here, that this is often taken away from women through making them pregnant as soon as possible and then "chaining" them to children. So glad I escaped such cruel fate, as it is surely not part of who I want to be and how I want to live.

 

[solxyz]

Life is a good thing. It is not a "matrix."

People should choose to have children or not depending on their ability to provide a decent upbringing for them - that includes providing for their material welfare as well as deep emotional support. If you don't think that your life is fundamentally a beautiful, wonderful thing, you may have some emotional issues that prevent you from being fully ready to parent a child. That said, one shouldn't wait for everything to be perfect before they have kids. That never happens.

 

[Firetree]

I considered two choices ;
1. Have children - but I have no real solid financial or stable base , am irresponsible and very specific idea about upbringing, so that would require a very specific type of partner / mother . And even if so, bring them into a world where 'these things' are happening and total insanity is about to break loose .

2 - consider that there are enough children around that dont get enough care or good feedback or attention , so I can 'put in there ' .

I opted for the 2nd ..... and certainly had my hands full with that at times .... many times, many different kids as an 'elder friend' father figure, teacher , or 'strange old uncle ' . Turns out the kids I had association with liked me and the way I dealt with them .

Considering parenthood ? That is 24 / 7 ...... think about that .

Not even a parent but being a partner to someone with kids ; imagine this

Early morning phone call '' You have to come and help me , I am sick and vomiting and cant get out of bed , got a terrible flue and so have the kids ( 3 boys all under 5 ) , two are hungry and one has diarrhea , they are walking around the house crying and tried to make breakfast but dropped a glass bowl and smashed it and now they are walking around barefoot in the kitchen over broken glass and diarrhea on the floor .... ''

No pottering in the gardening , sitting in the sun, going to the beach , no anything that I had planned or not planned , for me today

'' Okay , I will be there in about 15 minutes . ''


Think about it !