[Help] Need help on identifying the correct action to take...

[Accipeveldare]

I have someone in my life who is not necessarily a threat yet. However, it is delicate and they seem very interested in making my life miserable. I am not one to throw curses and such. So, I am looking to find a spell that would make them uninterested in me in general so that they just get bored and stop what they are doing.
What kind of spell would this be? Chord cutting? Binding? Etc?
I have always been more into the attainment side of things so i dont do a lot of external magick.

 

[FireBorn]

In the past I have asked Vepar to hide me in her fog. Water is her thing, so is strategy. It is a strategic move to have her hide you in her fog so this person cannot see you or find you so to speak. It worked very well for me in the past. This is a very subtle move without causing much of a stir.

One warning though, make sure you come to her with clarity (know what you want clearly). I didnt at first and I paid the price, so just passing that tid-bit forward for what its worth lol. Other than that, Vepar is an amazing teacher. I highly recommend.

 

[Denise13]

A spell for something else to catch her interest. There's loads of room for this to go horribly wrong, so assess the details of the situation. It makes a difference whether she's a family member, work colleague or boss, etc.

 

[Accipeveldare]

A spell for something else to catch her interest. There's loads of room for this to go horribly wrong, so assess the details of the situation. It makes a difference whether she's a family member, work colleague or boss, etc.

Would basic chord cutting work better? What you speak of sounds like binding, and if that be true. Yes, I agree it could go VERY wrong.

 

[Thomas Tomorrow]

Hoodoo freezer spell

 

[Denise13]

Definitely not binding!

Cord cutting would be appropriate if this person has some personal relationship to you. Otherwise the spell would create a link that wasn't already there.

Freezer spells have the drawback that it bind you to the person by having them on your property. in the old days we buried spells at crossroads. It's tricky now with most roads paved over.

Just a straitforward spell for something elsewhere to catch her attention and focus her interest would lead her away from you.

 

[jay007]

just shush them away. you have the power to. better still, accept that which they are coming with and see how it makes your life better.

 

[TheGoddess888]

I have someone in my life who is not necessarily a threat yet. However, it is delicate and they seem very interested in making my life miserable. I am not one to throw curses and such. So, I am looking to find a spell that would make them uninterested in me in general so that they just get bored and stop what they are doing.
What kind of spell would this be? Chord cutting? Binding? Etc?
I have always been more into the attainment side of things so i dont do a lot of external magick.

Honestly, I think the easiest thing to do is win at life and put that energy back into yourself.

One practice that's helped me is calling all of my energy back to me. I usually say something like:

"I call back all of my energy across all space, time, dimensions, timelines, and realities. I release all energy that isn't mine and return it to its rightful owner with no attachment. May my energy now be used to fulfill my highest good and the life I'm creating."

I usually say it three times, and afterward I genuinely feel lighter.

I also try not to give people more power than they actually have. Sometimes just believing someone can affect you gives them a foothold. To me, this is your reality. You're the main character. You get to decide who has access to your energy and who doesn't. Whatever someone chooses to do behind closed doors is their business. You don't have to participate.

I also believe words are incredibly powerful. Whether you call it prayer, manifestation, intention, or magic, I think there's real power in speaking what you want into existence. I've found that my energy goes much further when I focus on the life I'm trying to build rather than on what someone else is doing.

 

[Ziran]

the attainment side

What if you look for and find the attributes of this other person within yourself? Then rectify those attributes with your own wisdom and knowledge? If successful this other person will not be able to make you miserable, because, you're operating beyond their state of consciousness/awareness.