[Help] Despair of unmutual Love

[Adelina]

I concur with what beardedeldridge wrote. You mentioned Greek entities, Sumerian... I don't think that any authentic Greek or Sumerian Tradition actually survived, so you most likely used some very modern made up New Age "spells". Just look for some authentic Tradition which wasn't (re-)invented in the last few decades and dig it deep. Meanwhile, you might actually find that you don't really need that one person whom you want to fascinate. No morals here, just sometimes people realize that the dreams of their youth could become their worst nightmare if they ever came to pass. And the only thing they might be regretting is the time which was lost for nothing.

Go learn something real, test your powers on the object of your passions, but don't get too much fixated on that person. World isn't centered around just one guy/girl, there are many who might be a much better party for you. Don't lose so much time just for one person, life is short, eventually you might find yourself too old for any party. Look at this your object of passions as kind of hobby. Even more so, your extreme emotions might become the barrier for real Spells, and you might get unexpectedly bad result. I saw one guy nearly died from one of Love Operations, and not only Love Operation failed, it also became the Curse for the victim of that Operation, his health greatly declined and so did his sanity, but his disposition to the charmer didn't change in the slightest.

 

[voidcat]

I wouldn't do a love spell if I were you. I would do a cord cutting and a spell for moving on finding worth in yourself rather then in another person.

True love isn't forced. Trust me. I just had a bad break up lately and I think I ruined any chance of a friendship with that person by trying to hold on too hard and I would never do a spell to get them back into my life not as a friend nor lover. I care too much about them and their happiness to. I'm telling you as someone who has had a broken heart if you truly care about this person let them go. Trying to hold on to someone or trying to force them in your life is just going to lead to more heart ache and would eventually lead to them resenting you.

 

[8Lou1]

btw stupid question: do you know this person thats so deserving of your love or is it just a concept? if its the latter i might have an idea to play with it. otherwise a no is a no after so many tries and i understand the love for a strong person like that. it sounds silly, but in the fluffy duffy corners of the love and light witchcraft world you seem to have a part of her in you that you need to accept and dissolve by either becoming stronger and take over the power or by kicking it out and letting it go. either way you need to be destructive towards it.

 

[IllusiveOwl]

I have worked with all known demons: Greek, Sumerian, Egyptian, Slavic, Scandinavian and Jewish pantheons of gods. Tiamat, the Qliphoth and Sephiroth trees, the Abyss itself in its various layers of immersion. Partly Zoroastrian deities.

Oh, well then why are you asking us for help? If you're so experienced with contacting them, they're who you should be asking, duh.

 

[HoldAll]

Always assuming you're a male going after a female within the heterosexual format: have you tried good old-fashioned courtship yet? It's no good adoring her from afar, you have to win her friendship and trust which is tricky to do because you don't want to land in the friend zone either [should you alreay be in the friend zone: get out quickly by any means necessary, ghost her and strive to forget her utterly, trying to turn such a relationship into romance is completely hopeless, trust me, I know what I'm talking about].

Most love spells directed at a specific person are all about subjugation and coercion. I think that's an unrealistic as well a uncalled-for approach, and that's probably why 'incel' and 'sex doll' were mentioned in the replies to your post. It's another snide macho way of saying, "If you can't even rally up the gumption to talk to her, you deserve to be a lovesick loser!" Instead of putting a hex on that person, I would suggest working magic on both of you. After all, if you come on all needy and sappy, she'll avoid you as much as you can; in courtship, desperation not only stinks, it stinks to high heaven and ruins everything. So what you need to do is putting a glamour on yourself to become more relaxed and suave in her presence, to a degree that even you yourself are surprised by your transformation, as well as possibly a spell on her so she'll find interesting what you have to offer.

I come from a chaos magic background, and chaos magic is nothing if not pragmatic. If you can increase your chances by mundane means, do so by all means and only then work your magic as you see fit. Once you get close to her and win her trust, you'll have a better idea of what's required and what the specific cause of her resistance to your advances is, which in turn will inform the kind of magic you'll subsequently use. Again, as someone from a chaos magic background, I have zero respect for the alleged venerability of ancient cults and grimoires whenever I suspect one of their formulae is bullshit or rank superstition, like the PGM love spells which are supposed to physically and mentally torture the lady of your dreams until she comes finally crawling into your bed in the middle of the night - that's just a sick wet dream, I say. No. Get close to her, win her trust, then you'll see what exact supernatural intervention is required, and for heaven's sake, don't rely on magic alone to do the job.

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tl; dr: Wield magic like a lancet, not like a blunt weapon.

 

[WisdomAddict]

Do you love your self?

 

[Xenophon]

Do you love your self?

“Romantic love covereth an abyss of self-loathing"---The Testament of Thorsten Hadur, 1.311

Perhaps love is like baking a cake. We keep checking on the result so often, cracking the over door, the whole thing falls.

Those who use love potions would use roofies, were it not so walkaday mundane.

 

[Omee]

If it was me I would just get a sex doll and conjure a demon into it. You know, to take the edge off

Spoiler: Stolas after this post:

 

[Wise Owl]

Is there anything else you can do to gain the love and desire of another person if you have already tried all sorts of rituals; sold to the dark forces everything that you had, who you were, and that was somehow connected to you?

I am absolutely not interested in listening to another nonsense about self-development, improving my social, material and physiological condition. All this is meaningless without the love of one particular person, no matter how many opportunities, riches, and other things I have.

This is the third year of my suffering. This is not life, but garbage, filled with torments that cannot be eliminated. Therefore, if anyone present here can somehow help me achieve the love of one particular person, I will be very grateful to you.

And don't tell me that emotional involvement in achieving a result soon cancels magic. I will ignore such answers.

PS: I have worked with all known demons: Greek, Sumerian, Egyptian, Slavic, Scandinavian and Jewish pantheons of gods. Tiamat, the Qliphoth and Sephiroth trees, the Abyss itself in its various layers of immersion. Partly Zoroastrian deities.

Stop watching movies and tv series or reading books that states this can be done via magick. It can't be done and never will.

You came here with your intro post looking for people who will give you false hope because you are desperate and when others tell you the truth, you dislike them and insult them. You do need help, they are right.

 

[Baranova Alya]

Dear colleagues, a person turned to you in despair and asked for advice for decisive steps, and you are directly killing him! You all know that when a person comes to magic, it means that this is the last hope and stage! Do not get him!


It is logical to accept the idea that the desired object does not feel mutual feelings for you. So, if you want to bind a person to you with the help of magic, then you need to act on yourself first. To begin with, you must perform rituals on yourself. This is the base. There will be no miracle if you perform one ritual. First, you need to dull your senses. I realize you can't do that on your own. Do it with magic. There are so many rituals for “turning away”. Perhaps you will cool yourself down and life will go differently. But at least for the time of work you should “cool” yourself. So, make yourself “cool down”, then make rituals for other people to see you as “sunshine”, consider you beautiful, want to communicate with you. I repeat: all this you do on yourself. And only then do you begin to act on your partner. You remove all magical defenses and suppress the will. And only then, having weakened the object energetically, you can proceed to love magic. It will take quite a lot of time, but with one ritual you will not solve anything. And yeah, it's a pretty weird situation. Look, you've been living with these manic thoughts about a man for three years now. Trying all sorts of things. Has it ever occurred to you that maybe magic has been done on you? Maybe it's been tried on you with hexes and will suppression? Don't look for help with a hex now, find help in analyzing your situation specifically. Cleanse yourself, perhaps, and you will be surprised. As for help... If you see this as the last step and you can't do it any other way, text me. I will give you the rituals and their sequence, if you are willing to spend time and not expect everything to happen in a week. I will try to explain the principle and logic in the sequence of rituals in more detail.

 

[NODUSKAn]

Dear colleagues, a person turned to you in despair and asked for advice for decisive steps, and you are directly killing him! You all know that when a person comes to magic, it means that this is the last hope and stage! Do not get him!


It is logical to accept the idea that the desired object does not feel mutual feelings for you. So, if you want to bind a person to you with the help of magic, then you need to act on yourself first. To begin with, you must perform rituals on yourself. This is the base. There will be no miracle if you perform one ritual. First, you need to dull your senses. I realize you can't do that on your own. Do it with magic. There are so many rituals for “turning away”. Perhaps you will cool yourself down and life will go differently. But at least for the time of work you should “cool” yourself. So, make yourself “cool down”, then make rituals for other people to see you as “sunshine”, consider you beautiful, want to communicate with you. I repeat: all this you do on yourself. And only then do you begin to act on your partner. You remove all magical defenses and suppress the will. And only then, having weakened the object energetically, you can proceed to love magic. It will take quite a lot of time, but with one ritual you will not solve anything. And yeah, it's a pretty weird situation. Look, you've been living with these manic thoughts about a man for three years now. Trying all sorts of things. Has it ever occurred to you that maybe magic has been done on you? Maybe it's been tried on you with hexes and will suppression? Don't look for help with a hex now, find help in analyzing your situation specifically. Cleanse yourself, perhaps, and you will be surprised. As for help... If you see this as the last step and you can't do it any other way, text me. I will give you the rituals and their sequence, if you are willing to spend time and not expect everything to happen in a week. I will try to explain the principle and logic in the sequence of rituals in more detail.

I would like to know what that procedure is and the sequences of those rituals, please.

 

[Baranova Alya]

I would like to know what that procedure is and the sequences of those rituals, please.

ok, I think you are not the only one interested in this, let me try to write it in more detail in a separate thread. I'll let you know when it's done!))))))

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[silencewaits]

This is the third year of my suffering. This is not life, but garbage, filled with torments that cannot be eliminated. Therefore, if anyone present here can somehow help me achieve the love of one particular person, I will be very grateful to you.

Have you tried er... eliminating your attachment to this person in whatever working that suits you? And it seems those love spells worked - on you, towards this person. But this person might not be capable of giving you the love you desire. There's no route. It's better to break whatever binds you have placed between yourself and them. Wild obsession makes for good ritual fuel. I find it helpful to ritually destroy the idea in your head of the person causing limerence.

Also, you might be projecting your animus upon this person. But the animus is an ideal. In reality they're just another person who might happen to allow you to access those parts of yourself. They feel like The One™, until you find another who makes you feel that way too. It hurts to be cut off from that. Trust me, I know.

All women are inherently superficial and bow to the power of men with money.

Jesus Christ. Most people are inherently superficial and bow to the power of men with money. And there are a lot of people who would feign attraction to a sexist with a fat wallet so they can benefit. It doesn't mean they love 'em.

 

[Xenophon]

Have you tried er... eliminating your attachment to this person in whatever working that suits you? And it seems those love spells worked - on you, towards this person. But this person might not be capable of giving you the love you desire. There's no route. It's better to break whatever binds you have placed between yourself and them. Wild obsession makes for good ritual fuel. I find it helpful to ritually destroy the idea in your head of the person causing limerence.

Also, you might be projecting your animus upon this person. But the animus is an ideal. In reality they're just another person who might happen to allow you to access those parts of yourself. They feel like The One™, until you find another who makes you feel that way too. It hurts to be cut off from that. Trust me, I know.


Jesus Christ. Most people are inherently superficial and bow to the power of men with money. And there are a lot of people who would feign attraction to a sexist with a fat wallet so they can benefit. It doesn't mean they love 'em.

We all of us play Pygmalion. Drape someone flesh 'n blood in our fantasy then get and grumpy and butt-sore when the garment does not fit. You are 100% right.

As for money, the only folks who gripe about the aphrodisiac power of money are the financially impaired. (I am one at the moment. Stoically not griping and trusting that my nobility of mien will rouse smouldering female passion. So far, no takers.) But let's be realistic: the ability to reap heaps of wealth IS a sign of being able to deal effectively with one's environment. Maybe not the best, the noblest, and what have you. Still, it's fair to ask Romeo Highpockets, "What've you got going for you, kid, that I wanna, I yearna, I gotta give up sweet Daddy Warbucks to straddle your emaciated loins, your threadbare a**?"

 

[Imperium]

We all of us play Pygmalion. Drape someone flesh 'n blood in our fantasy then get and grumpy and butt-sore when the garment does not fit. You are 100% right.

As for money, the only folks who gripe about the aphrodisiac power of money are the financially impaired. (I am one at the moment. Stoically not griping and trusting that my nobility of mien will rouse smouldering female passion. So far, no takers.) But let's be realistic: the ability to reap heaps of wealth IS a sign of being able to deal effectively with one's environment. Maybe not the best, the noblest, and what have you. Still, it's fair to ask Romeo Highpockets, "What've you got going for you, kid, that I wanna, I yearna, I gotta give up sweet Daddy Warbucks to straddle your emaciated loins, your threadbare a**?"

And even if you spend lots of $ on a relationship it can still go to in a sec.

BTW women are not so bad, many of them leave rich husbands for not so rich lovers.

OP sounds like a young person, no worries you can impress women with lots of things, special talents, looks, kindness, etc. etc.

 

[r2magooo]

Is there anything else you can do to gain the love and desire of another person if you have already tried all sorts of rituals; sold to the dark forces everything that you had, who you were, and that was somehow connected to you?

I am absolutely not interested in listening to another nonsense about self-development, improving my social, material and physiological condition. All this is meaningless without the love of one particular person, no matter how many opportunities, riches, and other things I have.

This is the third year of my suffering. This is not life, but garbage, filled with torments that cannot be eliminated. Therefore, if anyone present here can somehow help me achieve the love of one particular person, I will be very grateful to you.

And don't tell me that emotional involvement in achieving a result soon cancels magic. I will ignore such answers.

PS: I have worked with all known demons: Greek, Sumerian, Egyptian, Slavic, Scandinavian and Jewish pantheons of gods. Tiamat, the Qliphoth and Sephiroth trees, the Abyss itself in its various layers of immersion. Partly Zoroastrian deities.

Write down in 10 words or less .. what you want.

start by writing in as many words as it takes what you want

then summarize the shit out of it

10 words or less .. that starts with .. I WANT

so its 8 words

maximum

this requires work ..

I guarantee this you have never ever read of before ,,

I don't rehash ..

I read your post .. this emerged .. do it , don't do it , its your choice

but if you do .. you will clarify your issue

 

[Xenophon]

And even if you spend lots of $ on a relationship it can still go to in a sec.

BTW women are not so bad, many of them leave rich husbands for not so rich lovers.

OP sounds like a young person, no worries you can impress women with lots of things, special talents, looks, kindness, etc. etc.

The highlighted passage above indicates some women are impulsive, not necessarily good.

 

[Xenophon]

Write down in 10 words or less .. what you want.

start by writing in as many words as it takes what you want

then summarize the shit out of it

10 words or less .. that starts with .. I WANT

so its 8 words

maximum

this requires work ..

I guarantee this you have never ever read of before ,,

I don't rehash ..

I read your post .. this emerged .. do it , don't do it , its your choice

but if you do .. you will clarify your issue

In high school, I could do that in two words. A first name and a last one. Adding a few words for grammatical correctness, we have, "Lord Gawd Awmighty, gimme Bessie Mc Bunz!" It didn't work. Well, OK. It did clarify the issue. The issue was I had issues. But you're probably still right. A love potion might not have really addressed the underlying problem.

 

[Yvonne]

Am I allowed to link a paid download that might help OP ? I have no connection to the company except I bought a couple of their downloads

 

[HoldAll]

Am I allowed to link a paid download that might help OP ? I have no connection to the company except I bought a couple of their downloads

From the Market Rules and Guidelines:

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Sorry, that's out. Out of curiosity, is there a commercial product/service for lovesickness?