Does anyone else see the gender divide in practices?

[bramblecreature]

I think that women are sold a more consumerist view of spirituality, I definitely see it a lot in more women dominated spirituality spaces, I see spirituality or at least the mutilated remnants of it sold as "aesthetic", another cutsey mug with the triple moon, fast fashion prints and Amazon ritual tools, most other women I meet when they say they're a witch too they mean a very entry level Wiccan who does tarot or horoscopes on occasion, they learnt spells from content creators, there's a crucial removal of deep mediation and regular ritual, instead favouring deity work and love spells (more things to buy without understanding) and my pet theory is it's on purpose to keep women compliant, women who could've been amazing witches or sorceresses lobotomised by the myth of easy spirituality sold to them.

 

[otherworldlymage]

I agree with you fully until the last part. I think women are more easily swayed by the emotions and feelings of magic but they are easy to manipulate by content creators due to that consumerism bend. There is no conspiracy for compliance, just capitalism.

Nothing in my comment is against women in any way, just like OP said, it is a societal trend that influences them a lot.

 

[bramblecreature]

like I said it's only a pet theory not something incredibly serious but I do understand the driving factor is the insatiable appetite of capitalism to turn anything sacred into something to sell mindlessly

 

[Sabbatius]

like I said it's only a pet theory not something incredibly serious but I do understand the driving factor is the insatiable appetite of capitalism to turn anything sacred into something to sell mindlessly

Capitalism itself is not the issue, but marketing. I deal with Plastic Shamans about seven times a year at Jintamok, Pow-wows, Festivals, Seasonal Dances and any other gatherings, Tribal and Inter-Tribal. Plastic Shaman always trying to sell goods, retreats and services in the name of authenticity, as many of the Tribes allow vendors outside of the Circles.

In the case of Sexes, the market gears more traditional sales toward, though the word itself is a modern conception to sew modern concepts, "Gender"-Specific consumers the wares, as generic and cheap as they may be. Tarot over the years have become cheaper, in quality and in some cases, pricing. When a product becomes easier to obtain, expect the quality to sink. Much of Tarot has been marketed towards women. Much of the more Wicca/Witchcraft has been marketed towards women. Surprising, much of the Heathen market has shifted towards women as well. What has been Shamanism, mostly Core, is a boat full of women, mostly pale-skinned European women teachers who profess some "harmonious Earth healing energy techniques!" to the masses.

Either the Males of Magic are quiet, or so outspoken that I have nothing in common with most of the Marketed materials. Druidry is about the most even of the Sexes as far as professed teachers and sellers of wares goes.

I am not Anti-Capitalist but Pro-Consumer Control. We should be able to call a Spade as a Spade publicly. I have had to publicly call out vendors, or as many call "Plastic Shaman," for selling garbage and false products and services at functions- however, I have had to face Law Enforcement in the process.

 

[Asteriskos]

Awfully well said, additionally I'm married to a witch, I wouldn't want to be some dork that attempted to market some bull$hit to her. She's "extremely opinionated". One of the reasons I married her! Not all female practitioners are easily victimized. "Caveat emptor" applies to us all.

 

[Morell]

I think that women are sold a more consumerist view of spirituality, I definitely see it a lot in more women dominated spirituality spaces, I see spirituality or at least the mutilated remnants of it sold as "aesthetic", another cutsey mug with the triple moon, fast fashion prints and Amazon ritual tools, most other women I meet when they say they're a witch too they mean a very entry level Wiccan who does tarot or horoscopes on occasion, they learnt spells from content creators, there's a crucial removal of deep mediation and regular ritual, instead favouring deity work and love spells (more things to buy without understanding) and my pet theory is it's on purpose to keep women compliant, women who could've been amazing witches or sorceresses lobotomised by the myth of easy spirituality sold to them.

Well, I suppose you get your option from social network mainly. Truth is that girls are more vocal, so they flood the net, especially the crap making girls, which really manipulates one's opinion.

However, there definitely is inclination different to the genders that I've noticed on events where you could meet card readers, astrologers etc. and pay for reading. There I saw real people and all were serious practitioners doing it for the living, they were profesionals, if it could be said about them. Easy look around and I noticed:

Most of card readers are female
Most of astrologers and analysis people are male

In conclusion female practitioners are obviously more attracted to practices based on feelings, art, and intuitive guessing. Males are more attracted to cold analysis practices providing them with tables, numbers, math, clear data in other words.

There were of course also girls astrologists and male tarot readers, but as the general inclinations go, it seems to be the same as in other areas of life.

 

[MorganBlack]

Please allow me to preface this and say I have a soft spot for Wiccans as nice, nature mystics, so I hope this doesn't come across as too harsh. Good folks.

I've noticed this same divide mentioned here, and see it as a kind of psychological speciation. Coming from the game industry, I usually see it less about gender, and more about a kind of Bartle’s Player Types localized to magic/ occult /paranormal vs neopagan / religious / social market segments.

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From personal observation, while not 100% true of each, they are usually not driven by the pursuit of excellence (Exploration / Achievement/ Mastery), as we magicians tend to be.

I suspect most of us here are more driven by exploration, (with a few LARPing Killers gumming up the conversations) , and so we're only about 10% of any IRL player base.

80% of people are motivated by socialization, and neo-paganism's sales pitch is meant to target the socializers, and get them to buy the endless bilge-pump of glitter, crystals, and kit to appeal on social media. So over time, and we are talking a couple of decades here, they all self-select and balkanize themselves into groups all made of specific psychological type - until we get what we have today - boss level lifestyle marketing for the Instagram social influencers looking for a second income.

As a teen in the 80's I knew Wiccans then, and they could all talk Crowley and Kaballah. We were the same people. Moden paganism had not yet been dumbed down for mid-wits. But it was inveitable , as their language becomes less about magic and more about belonging, to get what we see today.

 

[SeekerPS]

I agree in respect that there are a lot of female teenagers sold a lot of “witchtok” memery. But i would say the same applies for men and the romantic fantasy of french black magician/Faustian demon pact maker with all the soul selling and sacrificing. It’s just that one of those two is much more easily marketable and sellable than the other tho.

 

[Asteriskos]

I agree in respect that there are a lot of female teenagers sold a lot of “witchtok” memery. But i would say the same applies for men and the romantic fantasy of french black magician/Faustian demon pact maker with all the soul selling and sacrificing. It’s just that one of those two is much more easily marketable and sellable than the other tho.

Some of them learn to spell "BALG" even before they can spell "MAGIC/K"!

 

[Anziel_Merkaba]

Some of them learn to spell "BALG" even before they can spell "MAGIC/K"!

The BALG forums used to be actually decent at one point, but then they turned into a complete shitshow.

As for the OP's take, while he is right about the commercialization of spirituality, it's less about da wahmen and more about tricking gullible people into spending money on an aesthetic that makes them feel unique, even if the only thing unique about them is their very specific form of made-up mental illness they got after spending too much time on X.