[Help] Despair of unmutual Love

[Arioh-Chaotic]

Is there anything else you can do to gain the love and desire of another person if you have already tried all sorts of rituals; sold to the dark forces everything that you had, who you were, and that was somehow connected to you?

I am absolutely not interested in listening to another nonsense about self-development, improving my social, material and physiological condition. All this is meaningless without the love of one particular person, no matter how many opportunities, riches, and other things I have.

This is the third year of my suffering. This is not life, but garbage, filled with torments that cannot be eliminated. Therefore, if anyone present here can somehow help me achieve the love of one particular person, I will be very grateful to you.

And don't tell me that emotional involvement in achieving a result soon cancels magic. I will ignore such answers.

PS: I have worked with all known demons: Greek, Sumerian, Egyptian, Slavic, Scandinavian and Jewish pantheons of gods. Tiamat, the Qliphoth and Sephiroth trees, the Abyss itself in its various layers of immersion. Partly Zoroastrian deities.

 

[Wintruz]

Is there anything else you can do to gain the love and desire of another person if you have already tried all sorts of rituals; sold to the dark forces everything that you had, who you were, and that was somehow connected to you?

I am absolutely not interested in listening to another nonsense about self-development, improving my social, material and physiological condition. All this is meaningless without the love of one particular person, no matter how many opportunities, riches, and other things I have.

This is the third year of my suffering. This is not life, but garbage, filled with torments that cannot be eliminated. Therefore, if anyone present here can somehow help me achieve the love of one particular person, I will be very grateful to you.

And don't tell me that emotional involvement in achieving a result soon cancels magic. I will ignore such answers.

PS: I have worked with all known demons: Greek, Sumerian, Egyptian, Slavic, Scandinavian and Jewish pantheons of gods. Tiamat, the Qliphoth and Sephiroth trees, the Abyss itself in its various layers of immersion. Partly Zoroastrian deities.

Neither the strongest magic nor all the self-development in the world will force something to happen that, by the sound of things, is never going to happen. She/he is not interested. Grow up, let go and move on. Or don't and suffer. Your choice. Everyone else will get on with their day either way.

 

[beardedeldridge]

Get help.

 

[Faria]

All this is meaningless without the love of one particular person, no matter how many opportunities, riches, and other things I have.

But... do you have them?

Let me tell you a secret. Money talks. When you can easily prove that you can fully support a woman in total comfort without the slightest worry, you can have any woman you want, even this one who probably isn't aware you exist.

Are you an incel loser? Are you a middle class decent person? Tech workers make 175k annual. You got that? No? When you can pay a whole team of them as a side-project, THEN you have riches. Until then you haven't got shit to impress anyone.

I don't care what your real problem is, whether you're fat or ugly or just a mean person. Money solves all problems. All women are inherently superficial and bow to the power of men with money. Forget the love spells.

 

[Wintruz]

Goodness, these forums have tanked spectacularly.

 

[Arioh-Chaotic]

If you can't help, then stay out and walk past. I don't give a f about your opinion. You can boost your self-esteem elsewhere at the expense of those who suffer, if that's what you can do, since you respond in this way.

 

[8Lou1]

True Love is knowing when to let go and understanding that you get born alone and you die alone. in between that you are not supposed to get addicted to the impossible.

or you if its a metaphorical person, get an arranged oldschool marriage, walk the paths and stay married while suffering the 3 years ich, giving birth to nasty unthankful kids and living with annoying neighbours while you dont even have money to go on holidays. the reward is a damn lot of feelings and emotions one could combine into something we call love.

otherwise i have no advise then go for a plan b person.

 

[Arioh-Chaotic]

True Love is knowing when to let go and understanding that you get born alone and you die alone. in between that you are not supposed to get addicted to the impossible.

or you if its a metaphorical person, get an arranged oldschool marriage, walk the paths and stay married while suffering the 3 years ich, giving birth to nasty unthankful kids and living with annoying neighbours while you dont even have money to go on holidays. the reward is a damn lot of feelings and emotions one could combine into something we call love.

otherwise i have no advise then go for a plan b person.

Unfortunately, such ideal endings did not work in my case. If it were that simple, I wouldn't be writing this.

 

[Mannimarco]

Your extreme negative feelings about the situation will counter manifest any magick you're done, for starters. I've felt unrequited love in the past, and detachment would be pretty difficult under those circumstances. I'd suggest meditation, and exercise.

 

[Arioh-Chaotic]

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Your extreme negative feelings about the situation will counter manifest any magick you're done, for starters. I've felt unrequited love in the past, and detachment would be pretty difficult under those circumstances. I'd suggest meditation, and exercise.

Paradoxically, these activities only increase the negative effects - I literally have endless panic attacks now, despite the fact that I devote dozens of times more to sports and detachment from thoughts and feelings for the sake of peace now than in the past, trying to improve my life mentally in this way.

 

[beardedeldridge]

This isn’t love. You have real issues. For anyone to help you make someone be in relationship with you…I’ve done some dark shit but that’s just fucked up.

 

[Arioh-Chaotic]

This isn’t love. You have real issues. For anyone to help you make someone be in relationship with you…I’ve done some dark shit but that’s just fucked up.

Man, you seem to be the kind of person who keeps morals. Well, keep it to yourself. If you're so afraid of the dark side of magic, stay out of it and keep quiet.

Anything is better than making useless noise.

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And an appeal to the little man, which puts laughter emotion under my answers here. Is that all you can do, brave? Don't have enough brain for a complete comment? What a pity

 

[Xenophon]

Read John Collier's short story, "The Chaser." It details all anyone ever needs to know about love philtres and, let us say, corollary potions.

 

[stalkinghyena]

If it was me I would just get a sex doll and conjure a demon into it. You know, to take the edge off

 

[Yazata]

Is there anything else you can do to gain the love and desire of another person if you have already tried all sorts of rituals; sold to the dark forces everything that you had, who you were, and that was somehow connected to you?

I am absolutely not interested in listening to another nonsense about self-development, improving my social, material and physiological condition. All this is meaningless without the love of one particular person, no matter how many opportunities, riches, and other things I have.

This is the third year of my suffering. This is not life, but garbage, filled with torments that cannot be eliminated. Therefore, if anyone present here can somehow help me achieve the love of one particular person, I will be very grateful to you.

And don't tell me that emotional involvement in achieving a result soon cancels magic. I will ignore such answers.

PS: I have worked with all known demons: Greek, Sumerian, Egyptian, Slavic, Scandinavian and Jewish pantheons of gods. Tiamat, the Qliphoth and Sephiroth trees, the Abyss itself in its various layers of immersion. Partly Zoroastrian deities.

There are a couple of Love spells and rituals on here. Some by well respected members and if I'm not misremembering it there's even one on here by someone who replied in this very thread.
Give the "Search" function a go, it might inspire you or be helpful in other ways. Good luck

 

[Arioh-Chaotic]

If it was me I would just get a sex doll and conjure a demon into it. You know, to take the edge off

Why would I do that if my goal is not sex, but feelings of love?..

 

[Taudefindi]

Is there anything else you can do to gain the love and desire of another person if you have already tried all sorts of rituals; sold to the dark forces everything that you had, who you were, and that was somehow connected to you?

If you tried everything and nothing helped, clearly the universe is showing you to move on and not bother with said person.
How many more signs are needed to understand that?

No one is owed another, and as they are their own person they also are free to choose you or not, and all you can do is accept whatever happens.
Maybe this is also a sign to focus on your attachment(and obsession) issues in order to grow as a being.

I am absolutely not interested in listening to another nonsense about self-development

If you see self-development as nonsense, then what are you doing in an occult site?What you think is the ultimate goal of using magic?

I literally have endless panic attacks now, despite the fact that I devote dozens of times more to sports and detachment from thoughts and feelings for the sake of peace now than in the past, trying to improve my life mentally in this way.

Best to seek professional help, preferably someone specialized in dealing with the matters of the heart(I'm sure there are psychologists or even therapists that focus exclusively on love and attachment).Sometimes an outside perspective can help when dealing with an inner issue.

 

[stalkinghyena]

Why would I do that if my goal is not sex, but feelings of love?..

It's not a solution, more of a tactic. You could just talk to it, express those feelings to a captive audience and observe yourself in the process. "Take the edge off" - like taking an aspirin for a headache.

Perhaps a relevant thought, perhaps not: One of the more ridiculous things about romantic love is how urgent it can be. It's a particularly greedy craving, beautiful and joyous on the surface for all its promises - but underneath, ugly and greedy, selfish to the extreme in its hunger to possess "the other". It makes people do stupid shit where one blessed moment can lead to many more of regret. I often think of the end scene of that movie The Graduate, with Dustin Hoffman.

So, a doll, or mannequin, or just a pretty picture - a target to develop self control.

the Abyss itself in its various layers of immersion.

A layered statement from Levi, which I have shared in other contexts:
"The forces of Nature are at the disposal of one who knows how to resist them."
That's not a negation but the reigns of a Chariot.

 

[Emperor Time]

Read John Collier's short story, "The Chaser." It details all anyone ever needs to know about love philtres and, let us say, corollary potions.

Perhaps the only story that was made into both a twilight zone and a tales from the crypt episode. And to answer the original poster, maybe your target is immune to the workings of love magic?

 

[beardedeldridge]

First maybe a bit of an apology for last nights we were drinking a good bit and I had already had my fill of people doing dumb shit, then your post came up. Nothing personal.

Second I get it, when I was younger I spent about a year obsessed about this one girl that I just “loved” and “couldn’t go on without” and honestly I look back at me back then and laugh at myself (and cringe a little). We all think our experience is unique but tbh it really ain’t.

Third you haven’t worked any magic yet, you made a long list of all of the typical entities one would work with and honestly most any of them could help you in this regard. So I’d be willing to bet you did some half ass ritual, yelled into the dark, cried some, maybe felt a little tingle of something happening, slapped these entities names on the thing and went back to moaning about how your life is forfeit or whatever.

Fourth you haven’t sold shit. You sound like you read and regurgitated some online posted edge lord BS.

But anyway.

How do I know this, because you have no agency or will (gave that up to wallow in your own self pity) and that is what magic is. Pitting your will against the reality that is. You can barely get out of bed in the morning you definitely aren’t staring reality down till it blinks first. That’s just fact.

Now to answer your question, love spells and similar, are all over the place. Every new age feel good book, old wives tale, classical myth, to every old school trad grimoire. That has been the bread and butter of practitioners since before anyone was writing this shit down. Pick one and give it a real go. If you can’t make that happen then move on.

But come back with “I don’t give a fuck what you think” and “it’s better not to say anything then to tell me the truth I’m not going to listen to”. We get it you’re tormented beyond belief hiding under your blankets.

I’m out of this conversation. Good luck and go touch some grass.