[Help] i think someone cast a love spell/ritual on me

[moira2]

as the title says, i think an old classmate of mine is trying to attract me. i thought at first that it could be via law of attraction, only because i'm very familiar with manifesting myself, but i'm now starting to think it's a spell/ritual.

for context, this was a highschool classmate that i knew from 12-16 y.o, i'm 20 now and haven't even seen him since. we only spoke once or twice. i know it's not a crush on my end because i'm fully aroace and have only felt attraction towards women. i really don't want this and i think it's part of the reason it took me so long to realise i'm aro…

he was the only person in highschool that i had a "crush" on, i could literally never stop thinking about him back then. when i graduated, my head felt really clear for once, but after a while, he was back in my mind again, then out. this has never happened to me with anyone else and i barely know him

i recently started having dreams about this man, even though i don't even have dreams about my closest friends and family, and that's why i decided to finally say something and ask for help.

i'm not a spiritual or religious person, like at all, or even superstitious. but i cannot think of what else is happening rn and i really need something done about this

please forgive (and correct) me if i get things wrong about spells/witchcraft. i'm wondering if there's any way i can firstly check if i actually have a spell on me?? but if not, it would be lovely to get pointers on how to get rid of it safely. i'm not a practicing witch and don't know any irl so i don't know how to help myself or what to do at all

 

[Aldebaran]

I hope the guy is good-looking. That always makes things at least a little easier. No one wants a love spell with an ugly person.

First, let's make sure it is a spell on you. Sit calmly and quietly for 5-10 minutes and see what comes up. Do you 'see' an energetic cord or tug to this person?
Next, let's try magic. Now, in your calm state, try a pendulum or your divination method of choice. Ask directly, yes or no. See what happens.
Last, do the revocation spell anyway. Why not? It won't hurt.

Revocation Spell:

household items:

• Scissors or a knife (for cutting)
• String or thread (any kind, even dental floss)
• Salt (table salt is fine)
• A bowl or sink

1. Find a quiet spot. Take a few deep breaths to center yourself. State your intent out loud or in your head: "I'm severing any unwanted connection to [his name] and reclaiming my energy." Keep it simple—one goal only.
2. Tie a knot in the string to represent the "link." Hold one end (that's you) and the other (him). Visualize or think about the thoughts/dreams flowing through it.
3. Sprinkle salt over the string (salt grounds and cuts energy). Say: "This connection is dissolved and ended."
4. Cut the string in the middle with scissors. Let the pieces drop into the bowl or sink.
5. Wash the pieces down the drain or bury/burn them safely. End with: "It's done. My space is mine."

Do this once, then ground yourself (eat something salty, walk outside barefoot if you can). If dreams persist, repeat in a week— but don't obsess.

Let us know how it works. There are lots of other methods, techniques and spells you can try. I'm sure you'll get many others besides this one.

 

[Accipeveldare]

as the title says, i think an old classmate of mine is trying to attract me. i thought at first that it could be via law of attraction, only because i'm very familiar with manifesting myself, but i'm now starting to think it's a spell/ritual.

for context, this was a highschool classmate that i knew from 12-16 y.o, i'm 20 now and haven't even seen him since. we only spoke once or twice. i know it's not a crush on my end because i'm fully aroace and have only felt attraction towards women. i really don't want this and i think it's part of the reason it took me so long to realise i'm aro…

he was the only person in highschool that i had a "crush" on, i could literally never stop thinking about him back then. when i graduated, my head felt really clear for once, but after a while, he was back in my mind again, then out. this has never happened to me with anyone else and i barely know him

i recently started having dreams about this man, even though i don't even have dreams about my closest friends and family, and that's why i decided to finally say something and ask for help.

i'm not a spiritual or religious person, like at all, or even superstitious. but i cannot think of what else is happening rn and i really need something done about this

please forgive (and correct) me if i get things wrong about spells/witchcraft. i'm wondering if there's any way i can firstly check if i actually have a spell on me?? but if not, it would be lovely to get pointers on how to get rid of it safely. i'm not a practicing witch and don't know any irl so i don't know how to help myself or what to do at all

Are you sure you arent just homosexual and trying to rationalize it? I mean, im not trying to make assumptions but "love spells" dont really work like that. Correct me if im wrong, obviously. But it sounds like you might just be homosexual or at least bisexual. No judgement! Just speculation.

 

[Robert Ramsay]

She already said that she's aroace - aromantic asexual.

 

[robyangel]

Hi, your request for help really caught my attention. If possible, I would like to understand more about this “sensation.” Is it limiting you? Is it putting your will at risk? Is it disturbing your balance? What do you feel about it?


It’s important for me to understand the details of what you’re experiencing and what you’re asking for. How do you perceive it? Describe in simple terms what you feel and what, specifically, is bothering you about this situation.

 

[Accipeveldare]

She already said that she's aroace - aromantic asexual.

Oh, i apologize. I GREATLY misinterpreted this. I had misread and thought that OP was a man and did not see aromantic, as i was skimming too quickly.

 

[rin_]

I hope the guy is good-looking. That always makes things at least a little easier. No one wants a love spell with an ugly person.

First, let's make sure it is a spell on you. Sit calmly and quietly for 5-10 minutes and see what comes up. Do you 'see' an energetic cord or tug to this person?
Next, let's try magic. Now, in your calm state, try a pendulum or your divination method of choice. Ask directly, yes or no. See what happens.
Last, do the revocation spell anyway. Why not? It won't hurt.

Revocation Spell:

household items:

• Scissors or a knife (for cutting)
• String or thread (any kind, even dental floss)
• Salt (table salt is fine)
• A bowl or sink

1. Find a quiet spot. Take a few deep breaths to center yourself. State your intent out loud or in your head: "I'm severing any unwanted connection to [his name] and reclaiming my energy." Keep it simple—one goal only.
2. Tie a knot in the string to represent the "link." Hold one end (that's you) and the other (him). Visualize or think about the thoughts/dreams flowing through it.
3. Sprinkle salt over the string (salt grounds and cuts energy). Say: "This connection is dissolved and ended."
4. Cut the string in the middle with scissors. Let the pieces drop into the bowl or sink.
5. Wash the pieces down the drain or bury/burn them safely. End with: "It's done. My space is mine."

Do this once, then ground yourself (eat something salty, walk outside barefoot if you can). If dreams persist, repeat in a week— but don't obsess.

Let us know how it works. There are lots of other methods, techniques and spells you can try. I'm sure you'll get many others besides this one.

I’m going to gently correct the first part of this to: No one wants a love spell that forces them against their will—period—regardless of whether or not they’re “ugly.”

It’s immoral if it’s immoral…and doesn’t become more acceptable because their appearance differs.

 

[Mannimarco]

as the title says, i think an old classmate of mine is trying to attract me. i thought at first that it could be via law of attraction, only because i'm very familiar with manifesting myself, but i'm now starting to think it's a spell/ritual.

for context, this was a highschool classmate that i knew from 12-16 y.o, i'm 20 now and haven't even seen him since. we only spoke once or twice. i know it's not a crush on my end because i'm fully aroace and have only felt attraction towards women. i really don't want this and i think it's part of the reason it took me so long to realise i'm aro…

he was the only person in highschool that i had a "crush" on, i could literally never stop thinking about him back then. when i graduated, my head felt really clear for once, but after a while, he was back in my mind again, then out. this has never happened to me with anyone else and i barely know him

i recently started having dreams about this man, even though i don't even have dreams about my closest friends and family, and that's why i decided to finally say something and ask for help.

i'm not a spiritual or religious person, like at all, or even superstitious. but i cannot think of what else is happening rn and i really need something done about this

please forgive (and correct) me if i get things wrong about spells/witchcraft. i'm wondering if there's any way i can firstly check if i actually have a spell on me?? but if not, it would be lovely to get pointers on how to get rid of it safely. i'm not a practicing witch and don't know any irl so i don't know how to help myself or what to do at all

If you're not a practitioner, giving you techniques at this point is not very likely to be successful. You need divination, commonly called "a reading", to determine whether there is a love spell present or not. And if there is, you need a spell to break it, and a ward or two to prevent it from happening again. You will probably have to hire someone for this.

Also, whether there is a love spell being done on you or not, the whole situation suggests to me that you may be less inherently aroace than you believe. Shamanic healing could be extremely helpful in that regard. Just a suggestion.

Best wishes.

 

[Fausto]

as the title says, i think an old classmate of mine is trying to attract me. i thought at first that it could be via law of attraction, only because i'm very familiar with manifesting myself, but i'm now starting to think it's a spell/ritual.

for context, this was a highschool classmate that i knew from 12-16 y.o, i'm 20 now and haven't even seen him since. we only spoke once or twice. i know it's not a crush on my end because i'm fully aroace and have only felt attraction towards women. i really don't want this and i think it's part of the reason it took me so long to realise i'm aro…

he was the only person in highschool that i had a "crush" on, i could literally never stop thinking about him back then. when i graduated, my head felt really clear for once, but after a while, he was back in my mind again, then out. this has never happened to me with anyone else and i barely know him

i recently started having dreams about this man, even though i don't even have dreams about my closest friends and family, and that's why i decided to finally say something and ask for help.

i'm not a spiritual or religious person, like at all, or even superstitious. but i cannot think of what else is happening rn and i really need something done about this

please forgive (and correct) me if i get things wrong about spells/witchcraft. i'm wondering if there's any way i can firstly check if i actually have a spell on me?? but if not, it would be lovely to get pointers on how to get rid of it safely. i'm not a practicing witch and don't know any irl so i don't know how to help myself or what to do at all

If you have erotic dreams, and such Man appears in your dreams many times, probably you are being a target of a love spell.

 

[rin_]

If you have erotic dreams, and such Man appears in your dreams many times, probably you are being a target of a love spell.

Not to overreact, but this was one of my main concerns. Hence why whether or not they (the man) are “ugly” is something I found so irrelevant.

I can understand being attracted to someone and wanting their attraction back, but…is this really how the person would want to be approached? She is clearly uncomfortable with whatever is happening, so going to go with no even aside from the moral issue

 

[Fausto]

Other aspect of a love spell Is unespected meetings. It's a classic symptom.

 

[moira2]

I hope the guy is good-looking. That always makes things at least a little easier. No one wants a love spell with an ugly person.

First, let's make sure it is a spell on you. Sit calmly and quietly for 5-10 minutes and see what comes up. Do you 'see' an energetic cord or tug to this person?
Next, let's try magic. Now, in your calm state, try a pendulum or your divination method of choice. Ask directly, yes or no. See what happens.
Last, do the revocation spell anyway. Why not? It won't hurt.

Revocation Spell:

household items:

• Scissors or a knife (for cutting)
• String or thread (any kind, even dental floss)
• Salt (table salt is fine)
• A bowl or sink

1. Find a quiet spot. Take a few deep breaths to center yourself. State your intent out loud or in your head: "I'm severing any unwanted connection to [his name] and reclaiming my energy." Keep it simple—one goal only.
2. Tie a knot in the string to represent the "link." Hold one end (that's you) and the other (him). Visualize or think about the thoughts/dreams flowing through it.
3. Sprinkle salt over the string (salt grounds and cuts energy). Say: "This connection is dissolved and ended."
4. Cut the string in the middle with scissors. Let the pieces drop into the bowl or sink.
5. Wash the pieces down the drain or bury/burn them safely. End with: "It's done. My space is mine."

Do this once, then ground yourself (eat something salty, walk outside barefoot if you can). If dreams persist, repeat in a week— but don't obsess.

Let us know how it works. There are lots of other methods, techniques and spells you can try. I'm sure you'll get many others besides this one.

thank you so much for your response!!

i meditated for 10-15 mins, but nothing came up. i'm not very good at visualising, so i'm not sure if that might have anything to do with it. i didn't really feel anything in particular either.

i used my pendulum to find my lost earring first (to see if it would work) and i did find it. i asked it whether i had a spell cast on me, and it gave a yes; not significant, but definitely a yes. i tried twice after just in case and appeared to get a similar answer.

thank you for the spell!! i'll try it out tomorrow and make a post in a week or two updating my situation.

 

[moira2]

If you're not a practitioner, giving you techniques at this point is not very likely to be successful. You need divination, commonly called "a reading", to determine whether there is a love spell present or not. And if there is, you need a spell to break it, and a ward or two to prevent it from happening again. You will probably have to hire someone for this.

Also, whether there is a love spell being done on you or not, the whole situation suggests to me that you may be less inherently aroace than you believe. Shamanic healing could be extremely helpful in that regard. Just a suggestion.

Best wishes.

thank you for your response, but i'm very sure about my orientation. i should've specified in my post, but i don't feel romantically attracted to him or otherwise. my thoughts have been wondering what he's up to or what's currently going on in his life rather than daydreaming about getting married lol. my concern is how they're starting to distract me from my day-to-day and my studies.

thanks for the suggestions

 

[moira2]

Hi, your request for help really caught my attention. If possible, I would like to understand more about this “sensation.” Is it limiting you? Is it putting your will at risk? Is it disturbing your balance? What do you feel about it?


It’s important for me to understand the details of what you’re experiencing and what you’re asking for. How do you perceive it? Describe in simple terms what you feel and what, specifically, is bothering you about this situation.

i'm not sure how to tell if it's messing with my free will, but it's distracting me pretty badly from studies. it isn't difficult for me to get distracted from them, though, but it seems to override my thoughts even when i'm hyper-focusing on my favourite hobbies or reading— which isn't common for me. i don't even realise that i've started thinking about him until it's been about 5 minutes of me zoning out… i also get symptoms of anxiety after, but i think that's probably just me.

mostly what's bothering me is that i'm not in contact with him at all and there's no reason for me to genuinely be hung up over someone i don't know (and don't want to know) i'm also not used to my mind being on anyone since i'm not super social. my sleep over the past three days has been very disruptive, but that could also be exam stress

 

[robyangel]

If you provide your details — first name, last name, date of birth, and place of birth — I can at least help you understand whether this is something that originates from within you or if there may be something external influencing it. You can also send them to me privately if you prefer, or you can choose not to share them at all. I understand — I don’t trust easily either. Simply follow what you truly feel inside.