[Help] Love spell

[esotericdykism]

Hey guys. So I’ve been doing some work with a 3ed venud talisman and some other stuff for attracting you know love in my life. I apparently fucked the wording because I kid you not the only thing that’s happened to me is being propositioned in exchange for drugs(???) and a old threesome from the one time I tried men unblocked me to say « sorry my girl thought you wanted to steal me we should run it back tho » and beg me. No females tho which was the goal. An almost comical level of fuck up you’d think I’d asked à monkeys paw

yes yes you can all make fun of me but if anyone has any advice to maybe not attract this that would be nice LMFAO

 

[HoldAll]

It could have well been the wording if it had been a chaos sigil magic operation. While the foundational books from the 1980s suggest "I want…" or "It is my will…" as the beginnings of formulas, people soon pointed out that such a spell would only serve to strengthen one's desire even more because the emphasis was on one's need instead of its fulfillment, and you really don't want that effect. "Desperation stinks", as they say, and women can smell a needy guy from a mile away. A solution would be avoiding the grammatical first person, i.e. your own needs and wants, altogether and say, for example: "Women are becoming more and more attracted to me" instead of "I want a romantic/sexual relationship".

I don't agree with the simplistic opinion that intention is all that matters in spells. Words guide our thinking, and I feel there's no room for ambiguity whenever you plan to impose your will on the universe, with the words of your spell pulling in one direction and your intention the other way.

 

[esotericdykism]

Thank you this is a good point. Also i am a female but same difference anyway. What was that meme where the girl was like « I wish I had a girl to kiss » and the guy replied saying « do you think because you’re gay that’s less pathétic »