[Opinion] Need Advice - Spell Combo for Reconciliation

[tantofaznem]

Hey good people, it’s me again

I need some advice (please not the “forget her / let her go” type).

So, quick backstory: I was with Strawberry (not her real name) for about 9/10 years. We loved each other deeply, had our ups and downs, but overall, it was amazing. Over time things fell apart, mostly because of me, I was very jealous and too intense, which hurt the relationship. She eventually walked away almost a year ago (but a few months ago like 5 months we made some good love for like 2 days, she called me "baby" even said "the cewshie is all mine " and then ghosted me , since that is a mission to talk with her).

Even now, I have pure feelings for her, and Strawberry admitted she still has feelings and strong attraction towards me, but because of the past she avoids coming back. We don’t talk directly (she avoids talking to me at all costs) anymore, only through third parties.

My plan:
I want to try a combo of jar spells - Communication, Road Opening, Reconciliation, and Love. My goal is to dissolve negativity, slowly reopen her heart, and rebuild communication step by step. I don’t want instant results, just a gradual change.

Do you think this order makes sense? Anything I should avoid or add? Ideas?

KUDOS

Note: I’m not asking for recipes, just guidance on order and general advice. Please keep replies polite and on topic

 

[Nembra]

It is perhaps a peculiarity of mine, but I strongly avoid trying to influence others' decisions outside of their consent. I know "opening her heart" doesn't sound like much, but ultimately it turns into poison whether it fails or succeeds - especially if it succeeds. Can you ever feel truly, freely chosen and loved by her knowing that you needed a spell to make it happen?

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Cast your spells on yourself. You won't be unnecessarily burdened and it's usually more effective anyway.