[Help] Obsession Spells and Love Spells?

[I Am Raphael]

Hello! I'm Raphael, I'm 18 years old and I'm just gonna get straight to the point. Around a year and a half ago I met this girl, the most perfect woman I've ever known, the only person who's ever seen something in me. We were in a relationship for about 8 months and that time was probably the best time of my life, we spent every minute together, I even wrote a beautiful piano ballad for her but around Christmas time last year she called it off with no explanation, she lost feeling for me for no apparent reason. There were signs, she started being more cold and toxic and distant towards me for the last month before she officially left me, but I still didn't see it coming. It left me shattered, I loved her so much and I've never felt love like how I felt from her ever before, and I don't know if I could ever love someone that deeply ever again. I still love her, I think about her every single day even though we've been separated for 8 months and no contact for 5 months. She's made it clear she has no romantic interest anymore and that kills me inside. Even after I poured my heart out in a crazy long string of text msgs to her a few months back, she didn't even consider it.

So I know love spells / obsession spells are a controversial topic among people in the whole witchcraft community, and a lot of people are strongly opposed to the whole idea of them, and I know the better thing for me is to move on, and a lot of you are gonna roll your eyes at this whole post. But I'm very interested in trying some obsession spell of some kind on her, and I'm fully aware of the consequences of it, I actually have a friend who's a witch who doesn't do love spells at all, do I wanna take matters into my own hands.


I am NOT asking anyone to do any spells for me, I know that's against the rules of the site. I am just asking if anyone here has any tested methods for this, and how I could possibly come up with my own spell to perform.

Thank you so much, any and all replies mean the world to me

 

[Yazata]

Please use the search function. Like I said last week in this thread:

[Help] - Love spell, marriage spell, reconcile spell- fast working

Hi All, Need help with Love spells. Anyone knows any fast working spell to attract a lover back or to make someone from the past to reconcile. And a spell to call in new desired lover or soulmate for marriage, romance etc

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[Morell]

Friend, love doesn't disappear without reason. It's not only about the girl being the perfect for you, but also about you being the prefect one for the girl.
And if you do not care about her enough to care more about her happiness as her heart desires rather than you having her... is that love?

 

[Fr. Maximagus]

I don’t say this to be condescending, but you are really young man. I remember having a similar experience when I was your age.
you look like a strapping young man, no reason for you to give up on love over this one girl. I know it feels like you’ll never find or love anyone ever again but I promise you will.

unfortunately man you are gonna have to learn that women only stay with men who don’t NEED them. Men who are good on their own with or without them, only then will a woman stay…and even then she may still leave because it’s what they do. Men find reasons to keep a woman, women find reasons to leave men. It’s how it goes 90% of the time. Obviously there are outliers but they are the exception

My advice is simple, in every interaction with a woman act like it’s the last time you will see her cause it very well could be.
As far as the spell goes I know you’re gonna do it anyway most likely…so if you do, prepare yourself mentally for it to work by telling yourself you’ll be good either way. Only thru detachment will you be able to actually keep her around if the spell works.

 

[beardedeldridge]

Yeah dude, it’s a case of puppy love, move on and live your life. Give it a few years and you’ll be surprised how little you remember about the person you can’t currently imagine your life without (speaking from experience).

That being said, check out a translation of the PGM if you still just have to go thru with it. It’s back from a time when spell slingers got paid to not gaf about their society’s moral code. Here’s one that is pretty simple (no opium burning, no finding and staring at her, no crafting, no killing an animal, etc…)

“xi. Love Spell of Attraction

Purify yourself from Everything for ... Days and say this

Spell at Sunrise: "Helios ... but come here to me, Mistress

AKTIO'PHIS ERESCHIGAL PERSEPHONE'; attract to me

and bind her, NN, whom NN bore, to the Man who is pining

away with Passion for her; at this very moment, inflame her

that she fulfill the Nightly Desires of NN, whom NN bore.

Aye Lord NETHMOMAO' Helios, enter into the Soul of her,

NN, whom NN bore, and burn her Heart, her Guts, her

Liver, her Spirit, her Bones. Perform successfully for me

this Charm, immediately, immediately; quickly, quickly!"

[PGM VII.981-93]

But seriously go touch some grass and be less needy with the next gf.

-Eld

 

[Fr. Maximagus]

This neediness kills attraction with the ladies brotha