Please don’t judge me….obsession spell

[lilyanna600]

Hello,

I really need some help and advice. I did an obsession type spell off of you tube (so I didn’t believe it would actually work but it has)

A man I have had a casual relationship with was married, unhappily they were living together but not together.

Me and this man have been chatting for a couple of years with occasional hook ups. He then got interested in another girl and I lost the attention from him. I decided to do a spell mostly because I was jealous and wanted the attention back not because I want to be with him. I did this spell a week and a half ago.

the girl he was also giving attention to has now told this guys wife and the wife has now said she wants him out. He’s now lost his wife who says she doesn’t want to be with him but also the other girl as he now hates her. I spoke to him on the phone as he “had an urge to call me” and on the phone he said he is looking at properties in the same village as me but he’s not sure why but he thinks it’s where he should be,

now I feel absolutely awful as I feel this is all my own fault. How do I undo it?

 

[Robert Ramsay]

I don't think this is something you can magic your way out of. Plus, this is a guy who had a wife and two girlfriends - objectively, how trustworthy do you think he is?

If you want to do magic for this, cut yourself off from the whole business; do one of those thread-cutting spells or somesuch.

 

[lehiah]

Hello,

I really need some help and advice. I did an obsession type spell off of you tube (so I didn’t believe it would actually work but it has)

A man I have had a casual relationship with was married, unhappily they were living together but not together.

Me and this man have been chatting for a couple of years with occasional hook ups. He then got interested in another girl and I lost the attention from him. I decided to do a spell mostly because I was jealous and wanted the attention back not because I want to be with him. I did this spell a week and a half ago.

the girl he was also giving attention to has now told this guys wife and the wife has now said she wants him out. He’s now lost his wife who says she doesn’t want to be with him but also the other girl as he now hates her. I spoke to him on the phone as he “had an urge to call me” and on the phone he said he is looking at properties in the same village as me but he’s not sure why but he thinks it’s where he should be,

now I feel absolutely awful as I feel this is all my own fault. How do I undo it?

First off, this guy is the biggest manipulator in the world. He cheated on his wife with you, and he cheated on you with another woman. This cycle is never going to end because he’s completely insatiable; he's only trying to get close to you now because he has nowhere else left to go. Please don't be so naive. Instead of casting a spell on him, I really wish you had gone to a therapist to get help moving past this messy love pentagon.
As for the spell, if you were going to resort to something like that, you should have at least done your research first. Even if the spell actually worked, you're looking at some major karma because of your lack of knowledge and the fact that you involved yourself with a married man. Unfortunately, you will never be happy with him, and bad things are going to happen to you when you least expect them.
To lighten your karma, you need to talk to his wife and apologize to her if necessary, do good deeds for people without expecting anything in return, and cut that perverted, insatiable guy out of your life for good.

 

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[reverendsteveii]

Hello,

I really need some help and advice. I did an obsession type spell off of you tube (so I didn’t believe it would actually work but it has)

A man I have had a casual relationship with was married, unhappily they were living together but not together.

Me and this man have been chatting for a couple of years with occasional hook ups. He then got interested in another girl and I lost the attention from him. I decided to do a spell mostly because I was jealous and wanted the attention back not because I want to be with him. I did this spell a week and a half ago.

the girl he was also giving attention to has now told this guys wife and the wife has now said she wants him out. He’s now lost his wife who says she doesn’t want to be with him but also the other girl as he now hates her. I spoke to him on the phone as he “had an urge to call me” and on the phone he said he is looking at properties in the same village as me but he’s not sure why but he thinks it’s where he should be,

now I feel absolutely awful as I feel this is all my own fault. How do I undo it?

1) this isn't your fault. you can tell because he was screwing around with other people, not just you

2) you don't undo it. you can't, and you shouldn't try. this man asked for something over and over again, and now he's getting it.

3) it's a great day to examine whether you actually want to be with this man, and why. do you want him? do you just want him to want you? do you just want someone? I don't know you from Eve (or Adam, I don't want to presume) but I don't think you deserve to be stuck with a serial philanderer who can't even pick one person at a time to cheat with. If you just want to continue to play around with him that's one thing, but if you expect fidelity from him then it's worth remembering that anyone who will cheat with you will cheat on you.