Rituals or Spells for getting Married

[El Pepe]

Hey everyone, how are you all doing?

This request might seem a little funny, but it's something real and serious. I believe most people here have already realized how difficult it is nowadays to have a solid, true, loving, and lasting relationship. I, being just a simple mammal, like many others, am born, grow, reproduce, and die. I believe that the vast majority of people on this planet also desire something similar.

I've been through a few relationships and I confess that nowadays, besides being a bit lazy when it comes to flirting, the amount of ghosting and rejection is absurd. Well, I have a spell ritual in my arsenal that can help me, but I'd like to ask you the following questions:

1- I started with ceremonial magic, but I know absolutely nothing about the mechanics of casting spells. The only thing that seems to work, in my opinion, is performing the spellwork for one lunar cycle, approximately 21 days. Is this correct?

2 - What rituals could I practically perform to achieve this goal? And what kind of entities could help me in this regard? When I say rituals in a practical way, I mean that I don't have the space or equipment to perform a complete noperation like evocation; all I have at the moment is a table that serves as a cubic altar and a shelf on the balcony where I pray and other things like incense, canddles and etc...

The goal is simple: to start a family, build a home, have children, and have plenty of wealth, abundance, and God's blessings.

Thank you in advance for your attention and participation, members.

Note: I am not willing to deal with goetia, sex magic, or chaos magic.

 

[Aldebaran]

I LOVE where you are headed with this!

I would suggest starting simple and small—small spells that get your powers flowing without jumping into overly complex ceremonies and rituals.

Cottage witchcraft or Hearthwitch are wonderful, low-energy magic that helps make a house a home, fills the air with good vibes, and creates a peaceful, helpful atmosphere. Maybe these aren't relationship-specific, but they are excellent for making a house a home and for gentle long-term blessings. Glamour magic is also a great way to get those flirty energies flowing again.

There's a lot of 'nice' sub-branches of witchcraft right now that are wonderful for what you are trying to accomplish. Good luck. Please keep us informed here about your journey. I would love to see your choices and progress in a journal.

 

[MinaAnd23as]

Your request doesn't seem funny at all. It's in our wiring to seek out companionship. The past few years have made doing so quite the struggle, hasn't it? It feels like many, too many, people have forgotten how to interact with one another. I find myself guilty of this at times.
I don't think it's just you being "a bit lazy" in terms of dating. Seems like a lot of people don't have the heart to make the effort. Again, I may be projecting here.

Don't think you need an elaborate ritual to bring love into your life. I find that simple meditation and strong visualization can oftentimes be more than enough. If you're looking for auspicious days, you can always aim for a Monday (Moonday) or a Friday (Frigg's day) in the phase of the waxing moon. And any entities you associate with marriage, depending on the pantheon that calls to you. Hera, Frigg, Hathor, etc.

I look forward to reading other's suggestions.

 

[El Pepe]

I LOVE where you are headed with this!

I would suggest starting simple and small—small spells that get your powers flowing without jumping into overly complex ceremonies and rituals.

Cottage witchcraft or Hearthwitch are wonderful, low-energy magic that helps make a house a home, fills the air with good vibes, and creates a peaceful, helpful atmosphere. Maybe these aren't relationship-specific, but they are excellent for making a house a home and for gentle long-term blessings. Glamour magic is also a great way to get those flirty energies flowing again.

There's a lot of 'nice' sub-branches of witchcraft right now that are wonderful for what you are trying to accomplish. Good luck. Please keep us informed here about your journey. I would love to see your choices and progress in a journal.

Thank you so much for your comments! I am a Thelemite, and witchcraft and spellcasting are not part of my reality in technical terms; I would love to learn more about it in practical terms.
Thank you for your feedback

Post automatically merged: Today at 3:56 PM

Meditations aren't something I've been investing much in lately; I prefer more active approaches. And yes, I'm aware of planetary hours and days. The thing is, as I said, I don't have many resources; I'm still limited to living with my parents, and well, I want to start a family, to live up to the example they gave me! I stopped doing magic in my room a long time ago, not only out of respect for them but also to dedicate myself to and align myself with more important things. I value that a lot. I can't just go around doing anything because, besides bringing side effects and leaving traces, I also think about my loved ones. Well, I have some Enochian witchcraft material here; I know it's a very powerful system, I wouldn't want to resort to it, but as I said, I have a small shelf that can serve as a daily prayer altar, instead of doing a full ritual with the other table I have available here.