Spell Jar Advice for Reconciliation

[fairysariiiiiii]

I’m looking for a simple spell or spell jar for my situation without needing lots of complicated tools or ingredients.


My situation, in short: I was in an on-and-off relationship with someone I deeply love. Three weeks ago, we had a big argument because he wanted sex, but I didn’t. Before that, he kept saying he wanted to meet and talk things through, but he never showed up. Since then, he has continued watching my social media, but suddenly he has a new girlfriend. I’m devastated and still love him.


My intention is for him to realize his mistakes, change, leave the third person, come back to me, fight for me, and choose a committed relationship with me.


I already have things like photos, honey, sugar, cinnamon, and even menstrual blood if that is relevant in some traditions.


Can anyone recommend a simple spell or spell jar for this situation?

• What ingredients would you use?
• How would you put it together?
• What words or petition would you say?
• Are there any steps I should follow or avoid?

I’m looking for sincere advice from experienced practitioners.

I‘m on my period rn so I wanna do this as soon as possible.

 

[AbammonTheGreat]

This is a pretty messy situation and I wouldn't touch it with a ten parsang pole. Given your level of... I don't know, confusion? This will surely backfire and blow up in your face.

However this is a forum about magic so here's what I would do if I wanted to take somebody else's partner.

You're going to want to get a picture of both of you and smear the honey between them then stick them together so they're stuck facing each other. Thats going to go in the spell jar. On top of this you're going to want to put a piece of licorice made from actual licorice root in there to compel the person to return to you, but this is going to make them obsessive. If you wanted to use a deity or spirit to aid in the spell jar then you'd use your own blood as the binding pact. However, for a spell jar you don't need to do this but you will need to put a piece of him in it. A piece of hair, fingernail, etc etc. Maybe you have something around from when you were dating. As for the intention its gonna be classic "they will not be able to eat or sleep until they return to me" or something along those lines. Now given you're not interested in your part in the situation, and are resorting to some pretty devious and dark magic to make the person who's moved on and found what they're looking for "realize their mistakes" you need to be aiming for an obsession spell. Any magic for reconciliation isn't going to work as you aren't interested in that. There's tons of easy and simple obsession spells all over the internet and in the PGM that will help you here.

Also if I were you I would re-evaluate my idea of "love" as if you approach this thinking you're doing it out of love and not power/control it's going to backfire on you. A love spell or reconciliation spell requires actual love and reconciliation, if you have the wrong intention its either not going to work or blow up in your face. If this is a control/power thing be honest about it in your intention and use the obsession spell with the spell jar ingredients you already have.