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jacobogrinberg777

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Hey everyone, I hope you're all doing great. I’m here to explain a situation and hopefully get some advice. I had a falling out with my in-laws due to a misunderstanding that got completely out of hand. Now they have a very negative opinion of me, and since they are incredibly stubborn, I’ve decided to perform a ritual tomorrow with Orias and Amdusias to change their thoughts and their ill will toward me. You might ask why I don’t try 'mundane' methods first—believe me, if I’ve turned to this, it’s because I’ve already tried everything else. Let me know what you recommend. Thanks for taking the time to read this.
 

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Keep doing what you are doing. Leave room to actually hear what Orias and Amdusias actually say, and what each has to teach you. Its often way more than you can see from inside your situation.

Hopefully things go well with your in-laws.

Goodluck!
 

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If you feel you are getting into trouble with people for reasons you don't understand, the problem could be mind control. This is referred to as gang stalking and is more common than you think. Their thoughts are being altered to cause problems. As someone who has had problems with this in the past I can give you non magical assistance. Remove yourself from problematic conversations. Understand the root cause of the problem. If required provide short hard to argue with responses like 'interesting'.
 

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I usually don’t give direct advice on this kind of work, especially with family involved.
But honestly….I think the bigger issue here may not be their feelings, it’s the whole setup. Who has control, who’s reacting, who needs who more…
And if they’ve already built a whole story around you, then trying to make them suddenly feel different may only affect the surface. I’d look at changing the dynamic and the narrative first, so it becomes more useful for them to shift their position than keep clinging to the old one.
 
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