what is wrong with me?

[wilgefortis]

I have only in recent years started to have disturbing events pertaining to obsession and borderline stalking when it comes to guys who I get somewhat romantically involved with.
To explain, I have never slept with any of them, I have not performed love spells on them and I am a pretty average looking woman, it's not like I'm some supermodel.
Anytime i get to chatting with a guy and after a while and I feel that I am not interested they get so angry and upset, they will start calling me at random hours of the night, hanging around routes I normally take, getting their friends to come to me to try to convince me to go back to them, telling me they need me and love after like a few weeks of talking and it has even escalated to a guy showing up outside my home.
This has been going on with numerous guys and I don't know why, has someone put some sort of hex on me or has something attached to me? Please help.

 

[Morell]

I would say that you leave those guys for good reason. Sounds like a good judgement of character.

Maybe some introspection is advisable, to find out why do you pick such bad people that you don't really want to be with and why... But others will advice you in this matter better than me.

 

[wilgefortis]

I would say that you leave those guys for good reason. Sounds like a good judgement of character.

Maybe some introspection is advisable, to find out why do you pick such bad people that you don't really want to be with and why... But others will advice you in this matter better than me.

well none of it happens when I am talking to them like, they're all normal guys who don't have a history of odd behaviours.
Normally it will be that we get to talking and I start to feel that it's not compatible, this behaviour has also happened after actually dating them after we break up, so I don't know what is going wrong here yk?

 

[Robert Ramsay]

well none of it happens when I am talking to them like, they're all normal guys who don't have a history of odd behaviours.
Normally it will be that we get to talking and I start to feel that it's not compatible, this behaviour has also happened after actually dating them after we break up, so I don't know what is going wrong here yk?

Men suck.

These are the kind of guys who put work into seeming normal until they get to the point where they think you owe them for all their 'hard work'.

As Morell said, you have fled for a good reason.

 

[HoldAll]

First and foremost, don't give out your phone number or address. And forget about being 'just friends' with (heterosexual) men. Speaking from ny own painful experience, women can't even begin to fathom how extremely humiliating it is for men to find themselves in the friend zone because us suckers will still go on hoping against hope that these 'friendships' will one day turn into romance.

I think some women are too trusting and underestimate the relentless hold sexuality has over men. As a guy whom women confide in (= serial friend zone victim), my ladyfriends would sometimes complain about the 'incomprehensible' behaviour of men, for example when one of them spent a nice evening with one of her 'friends' (thus a would-be suitor, from the male perspective), allowed herself to be brought home by him (first mistake) and then invited him upstairs for a last drink (second and humdinger of a mistake). Inevitably (again, from the male perspective), he wanted sex, and when she refused, he got mad and left. She was irritated and disappointed, I simply said she had been lucky for obvious reasons - which weren't obvious to her at all.

Now this is an occult forum, so I'll try to put an occult spin on this reply. I think you're leaving yourself too open, hex or not, and need to perform some protection magic, just in case. A guy approaching you with romantic intent should somehow subconsciously know that you're not to be trifled with in case he gets overconfident, despite you being the nice, likeable person you want to be seen as.

 

[SkullTraill]

This is not a dating advice forum. If you're going to reply to this thread, give occult advice.

 

[wilgefortis]

This is not a dating advice forum. If you're going to reply to this thread, give occult advice.

thanks, like this behaviour is strange this has only started happening to me recently with guys i haven't spoken to in a long time coming back and being strange, calling me at odd hours of the night etc so I was asking for advice just in case something might be attached to me causing these strange events