I didn’t mean for it to come off the way it did but I see where you’re coming from, I pointed to other avenues to go about it as love spells go against some aspects of Hermetic philosophy. So I woulda been remiss for not mentioning them.Here is a love spell posted by a forum member but it's written along the lines of PGM erotic magic where the idea is to break the desired person's will by violence, presumably in revenge for the adept's sleepless nights and unrequited obsession. Not for the squeamish and most likely overkill IMHO.
If I were you, I'd look into simple folk magic like hoodoo and do a Google search for {"honey jar" magic}, less drastic and more 'organic', if you will.
Chaos sigils might work too, if you're not as inept as me who once cast a sigil to get a girl who had put me in the friend zone, only to land more deeper in said zone as a result. The relationship then grew into a quite pleasant friendship so it was not a total loss… we became even more firmly entangled as a result of that spell even if that was not what I initially wanted; might have been coincidence, of course. But I attribute the failure of my clumsy magical attempt to the girl's rock-hard stubbornness and obstinate preclusion of me as a potential sexual partner where success would have been as good as impossible and nothing short of such violent methods as the Grimorium Verum spell would have defeated her inborn recalcitrance. Maybe.
Putting on my Forum mod hat, I'd like to ask to refrain from ethics discussion or debates whether it is wise to cast such a spell. The OP asked for "hows", not "ifs". Just a reminder and a plea.
Ok.As to not get off topic…
Gregorious, if you go for sigil magick be specific and it’s best to take it in steps building up to the desired goal when it’s a goal that big and requires that much energy. This also leaves less room for error. 1 -2 month interval in a time frame of 4-6 months. So a total of roughly 2-3 sigils. I prefer Spare’s sigil creation method personally but whatever resonates with you if you choose that avenue.
Oh Honey Jars and Hoodoo Practices has such a rich culture and so many aspects to it that it really shouldn’t be slept on. I agree 100%. It’s actually kinda fun to browse Voodoo/Voodoun religious shops where they sell hoodoo supplies. I recommend everyone go to one at some point if they are respectful about it. The shops are always interesting and most of the time the shop’s owner is really polite as long as you’re not obnoxious. albeit they can be hard to find and sometimes they just have a name like “African Shop” and/or very small print.Ok.
I'd still recommend honey jars and folk magic (after all, its practitioners were all about getting everyday problems solved without the leisure to ponder philosophical questions) but if you want to use sigils, here's a good ressource. I attribute my erstwhile failures (including bizarre side effects) to my lack of concentration and unambiguous firmness of intent, some inner conflicts about the goals I wanted to achieve, etc. but I would hate to discourage you from that method, it's fun, leaves lots of room for creativity and is highly beginner-friendly.