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Lost My Charm—Did Someone Cast a Spell on Me? 🌀✨

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Hey everyone,

I’ve been reflecting on my life lately, and I wanted to share something that’s been on my mind. About 10 years ago, I was that guy—the one who seemed to have this magnetic charm that drew women to me like moths to a flame. 🌟 I remember how they’d go out of their way to spend time with me—bringing me food at work, taking me out for drinks, and even offering to pay for… well, let’s just say the fun didn’t stop at dinner. 😉 One woman even came to my job and straight-up told me, “I’d like to… let’s just say, our dinner plans got upgraded to a group of three activity.” 😏. Another gave me a ring, saying she wanted to marry me (though marriage wasn’t on my radar at the time).

But then, life happened.

For the past 8 years, I’ve been buried in work—work, work, and more work. 💼 I’d come home exhausted, with zero energy to do anything but sleep and prepare for the next grind. Slowly, without even realizing it, I lost touch with that vibrant, magnetic version of myself. That charm, that aura that made people gravitate toward me, just… faded.

Now, when I try to reconnect with that part of myself, it feels… off. I feel uncomfortable, almost scared, like there’s some invisible barrier holding me back. 🚧 I’ve tried socializing, putting myself out there, but it’s as if that spark is gone. I can’t help but wonder: Did someone cast a spell on me out of envy? Or did I simply lose that energy by neglecting myself—emotionally, spiritually, and energetically—while chasing money and success?

I’ve dabbled in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), and while some of the techniques have been helpful, I don’t think this is just about language or mindset. It feels deeper, like my very essence has been drained. 💔

So, I’m turning to you, my fellow seekers of wisdom. 🕯️✨ Does anyone have recommendations for a spell, ritual, practice or even some books to read that could help me reclaim that lost charm? Something to reignite that magnetic aura and help me feel like me again? Or, how can I check if someone has cast something on me? I’m new to all of this, but I’m eager to learn and open to any guidance you can offer.

Thanks in advance for your insights—I’m ready to rediscover the magic within. 🌙🔮

With curiosity and hope,

Mysteryx88

P.S. If you’ve experienced something similar or have any tips, I’d love to hear your story! Let’s help each other shine again. ✨
 

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Hi, I'm sorry you've been feeling... disconnected, I'm gonna say?
This is more psychotherapy than magic (though the overlap can be huge) but I get the impression, from what you've shared, that your sense of Self has changed?
I don't know if it will help, but reassessing where you find/create meaning in life is often a good idea. We can never be our 'old self', that version is gone, we're here & now surrounded by uncountable differences from yesterday.
So, reflecting on what's important to you now can give a stronger sense of self: like, what are your values, joys, beliefs etc. What are you telling yourself about Your Self?
Anyway, that's existentialism, I hope you find the support you need.
 

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Hi, I'm sorry you've been feeling... disconnected, I'm gonna say?
This is more psychotherapy than magic (though the overlap can be huge) but I get the impression, from what you've shared, that your sense of Self has changed?
I don't know if it will help, but reassessing where you find/create meaning in life is often a good idea. We can never be our 'old self', that version is gone, we're here & now surrounded by uncountable differences from yesterday.
So, reflecting on what's important to you now can give a stronger sense of self: like, what are your values, joys, beliefs etc. What are you telling yourself about Your Self?
Anyway, that's existentialism, I hope you find the support you need.
Hi,

Thanks for your response! 🙏 I think my issue is also spiritual (I might be wrong), so internal healing or rituals might help. But I’m also curious about psychotherapy—any specific books, authors, or courses you’d recommend? 📚

Do you think combining therapy with spiritual practices (like meditation or rituals) could work? 🕯️🔮 I’d love your thoughts or resources!

With gratitude,

Mysteryx88
 

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Now, when I try to reconnect with that part of myself, it feels… off. I feel uncomfortable, almost scared, like there’s some invisible barrier holding me back. 🚧 I’ve tried socializing, putting myself out there, but it’s as if that spark is gone. I can’t help but wonder: Did someone cast a spell on me out of envy? Or did I simply lose that energy by neglecting myself—emotionally, spiritually, and energetically—while chasing money and success?

Based on what you've written, and I could be wrong, could the barrier you're observing be fear of failure? ... "if I fully invest in myself and fail, what does that mean???"

So, I’m turning to you, my fellow seekers of wisdom. 🕯️✨ Does anyone have recommendations for a spell, ritual, practice or even some books to read that could help me reclaim that lost charm? Something to reignite that magnetic aura and help me feel like me again? Or, how can I check if someone has cast something on me? I’m new to all of this, but I’m eager to learn and open to any guidance you can offer.

Well. Before I can answer, you've had your nose to the grindstone for the past 10 years? Are you ready to slow down or go on a hiatus for your your own well being?
 

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Hey everyone,

I’ve been reflecting on my life lately, and I wanted to share something that’s been on my mind. About 10 years ago, I was that guy—the one who seemed to have this magnetic charm that drew women to me like moths to a flame. 🌟 I remember how they’d go out of their way to spend time with me—bringing me food at work, taking me out for drinks, and even offering to pay for… well, let’s just say the fun didn’t stop at dinner. 😉 One woman even came to my job and straight-up told me, “I’d like to… let’s just say, our dinner plans got upgraded to a group of three activity.” 😏. Another gave me a ring, saying she wanted to marry me (though marriage wasn’t on my radar at the time).

But then, life happened.

For the past 8 years, I’ve been buried in work—work, work, and more work. 💼 I’d come home exhausted, with zero energy to do anything but sleep and prepare for the next grind. Slowly, without even realizing it, I lost touch with that vibrant, magnetic version of myself. That charm, that aura that made people gravitate toward me, just… faded.

Now, when I try to reconnect with that part of myself, it feels… off. I feel uncomfortable, almost scared, like there’s some invisible barrier holding me back. 🚧 I’ve tried socializing, putting myself out there, but it’s as if that spark is gone. I can’t help but wonder: Did someone cast a spell on me out of envy? Or did I simply lose that energy by neglecting myself—emotionally, spiritually, and energetically—while chasing money and success?

I’ve dabbled in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), and while some of the techniques have been helpful, I don’t think this is just about language or mindset. It feels deeper, like my very essence has been drained. 💔

So, I’m turning to you, my fellow seekers of wisdom. 🕯️✨ Does anyone have recommendations for a spell, ritual, practice or even some books to read that could help me reclaim that lost charm? Something to reignite that magnetic aura and help me feel like me again? Or, how can I check if someone has cast something on me? I’m new to all of this, but I’m eager to learn and open to any guidance you can offer.

Thanks in advance for your insights—I’m ready to rediscover the magic within. 🌙🔮

With curiosity and hope,

Mysteryx88

P.S. If you’ve experienced something similar or have any tips, I’d love to hear your story! Let’s help each other shine again. ✨
If you were the hot uber stud the women were all wild for, men were absolutely envious of you. Envy powers the Evil Eye. Some folks have a much, much, more powerful evil eye than others, but irregardless, if you had no daily practice of meditation/grounding/cleansing/banishing/shielding, the evil eye would build up over time, and could be as strong as an intentional spell. Or it could be an intentional spell. There could be a ton of other possible factors, probably several, and you'll have to divine throughly to find out. Once you have a solid picture of the situation, then you can begin to solve it. If you are starting from scratch or nearly so, it may take a few tries to find a system that you like.
Best of luck
 

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Did you know that having sexual contact with people creates a channel of “binding” between us. For example, in women, the channel lasts for 7 years. She slept with a man and the channel lasts for 7 years, the woman feeds him with her energy through this channel. If a woman is not picky in connections, she will feed many men. And if a woman is strong in practices, stronger than a man, in terms of energy, she can feed herself from this binding. I think it works the same way with men. Also, knowing women, and that they will go any way to their desire, I would not be surprised that some of your partners tried magic to bind you to themselves. If the work was done crookedly and not professionally, the hex did not happen, but the dirt was laid on you. Take care of yourself, and everything will get better. Bring your chakras into balance. Let go of those thoughts. There are many practices on the forum for cleansing yourself from negativity. Well and take into account that we are not getting younger.) Perhaps with age, you just subconsciously became not interested in some things).
 

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Based on what you've written, and I could be wrong, could the barrier you're observing be fear of failure? ... "if I fully invest in myself and fail, what does that mean???"



Well. Before I can answer, you've had your nose to the grindstone for the past 10 years? Are you ready to slow down or go on a hiatus for your your own well being?
Hey... thanks for replying.

That’s exactly what I’m doing. I had to put a stop to my work and school because it was completely overwhelming me. So, I’ve decided to just relax for the next couple of years and focus on myself. While searching for answers—reasons, causes, or solutions—that might help me, I stumbled upon this forum. It’s been incredibly useful so far, and I’m still exploring, trying to piece together what truly makes sense.
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Did you know that having sexual contact with people creates a channel of “binding” between us. For example, in women, the channel lasts for 7 years. She slept with a man and the channel lasts for 7 years, the woman feeds him with her energy through this channel. If a woman is not picky in connections, she will feed many men. And if a woman is strong in practices, stronger than a man, in terms of energy, she can feed herself from this binding. I think it works the same way with men. Also, knowing women, and that they will go any way to their desire, I would not be surprised that some of your partners tried magic to bind you to themselves. If the work was done crookedly and not professionally, the hex did not happen, but the dirt was laid on you. Take care of yourself, and everything will get better. Bring your chakras into balance. Let go of those thoughts. There are many practices on the forum for cleansing yourself from negativity. Well and take into account that we are not getting younger.) Perhaps with age, you just subconsciously became not interested in some things).
Hi, thanks for replying. 🖤

You shared really helpful information that I didn’t know before. A few years ago, I was with a woman who use to talk to me about magic. She talked about it so casually, like it was no big deal. I’m not sure if she was studying it, but she told me her dad once took her to see a witch because his ex was doing some kind of magic on him.

Ever since I met her, I’ve felt different—like a candle slowly burning out. My energy was low, unmotivated, and it was like something changed after that time. Could she have done something to me, even without meaning to?

What do you think I should do? Is there a cleansing or ritual that could help me feel like myself again? Or maybe a book you’d recommend?

Any advice would mean a lot. Thanks! 🙏
 
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I think @Mannimarco nailed it.

Look up terms "banishing" and "uncrossing". Find something you like and start doing it.
For banishing look up "LBRP"- easy ritual for beginners.
I also recommend Jason Miller's "Protection and reversal magic".
 

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I think @Mannimarco nailed it.

Look up terms "banishing" and "uncrossing". Find something you like and start doing it.
For banishing look up "LBRP"- easy ritual for beginners.
I also recommend Jason Miller's "Protection and reversal magic".
Someone recommended me "Protection and reversal magic". I'll look into it!!

Thanks for your help!
 

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Hey... thanks for replying.

That’s exactly what I’m doing. I had to put a stop to my work and school because it was completely overwhelming me. So, I’ve decided to just relax for the next couple of years and focus on myself. While searching for answers—reasons, causes, or solutions—that might help me, I stumbled upon this forum. It’s been incredibly useful so far, and I’m still exploring, trying to piece together what truly makes sense.
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Hi, thanks for replying. 🖤

You shared really helpful information that I didn’t know before. A few years ago, I was with a woman who use to talk to me about magic. She talked about it so casually, like it was no big deal. I’m not sure if she was studying it, but she told me her dad once took her to see a witch because his ex was doing some kind of magic on him.

Ever since I met her, I’ve felt different—like a candle slowly burning out. My energy was low, unmotivated, and it was like something changed after that time. Could she have done something to me, even without meaning to?

What do you think I should do? Is there a cleansing or ritual that could help me feel like myself again? Or maybe a book you’d recommend?

Any advice would mean a lot. Thanks! 🙏
You need a ritual to cleanse you, and a ritual to cut off all channels and bindings. Pick one that you like. Look it up on this forum. Perhaps you have someone who can look at your situation on tarot, for example?
 

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Ever since I met her, I’ve felt different—like a candle slowly burning out.
That's a start. You still need divination to determine everything that happened to cause the effects you feel. You can't fix what you're not aware of.
You need a ritual to cleanse you, and a ritual to cut off all channels and bindings.
Agreed.

I would add, sex is well known to transfer energy parasites from one person to another. If that happened, you will need the parasites removed and energy healing for the damage to your energy body.

Whatever your problems and solutions might be, in the long term, i'd suggest a daily practice of meditation, grounding, cleansing, banishing, shielding. In my mind, everyone needs this, or something similar, to maintain good energetic health.
 

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I think you've matured, for better or worse; additionally, the world around you has changed. You can't go back to your carefree younger days because now you do have cares, more life experience as well as practical insights that were not accessible to you ten years ago. You said it yourself: life happened. You can only attain a degree of vitality commensurate to your present age but not your youthful innocence.

What I'd like to recommend is exercise which should be no-brainer but hear me out: working up an honest sweat cuts through all those ruminations concerning curses and 'invisible barriers', various NLP experiments or other futile attempts to alter your mentality through sheer willpower alone; they will hardly make any difference if your body feels dull and sluggish from an unhealthy lifestyle.

In your case I definitely wouldn't recommend yoga, running, or going to the gym to lift weights but rather some athletic discipline that excites you, gives a dopamine rush and and makes you feel more alive. For some guys it's chasing a ball, for others it's martial arts or any sport where you gradually acquire new abilities and skills, something that grips you to the point of fanaticism. Gym workouts mostly focus on utilitarian aspects of exercise, losing weight, toning the body, looking good with your shirt off, etc. Instead, I advocate something that above all is FUN. Let all those the hormones released by your physical actitivity wash your worries away, or at least make sure you give yourself a regular break from them.
 

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You need a ritual to cleanse you, and a ritual to cut off all channels and bindings. Pick one that you like. Look it up on this forum. Perhaps you have someone who can look at your situation on tarot, for example?
Got it! I’m not entirely sure which ritual to go with, but I’ll look around the forum and see if I can find one that resonates with me. Feel free to share one if you have it also. Thx!
 

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Got it! I’m not entirely sure which ritual to go with, but I’ll look around the forum and see if I can find one that resonates with me. Feel free to share one if you have it also. Thx!
Do you practice magic at all? Any connection to any gods? A tradition that's close to you? Or do you want to perform the ritual on your personal power and energy?
 

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Do you practice magic at all? Any connection to any gods? A tradition that's close to you? Or do you want to perform the ritual on your personal power and energy?
No I do not practice Magic at all, all this occult world is new to me. I did not grow up within any religion, however christian principles is what my parents tried to follow.... so I would say the God of the bible is what I would be most connected to. I've never perform any ritual so I don't know what would be best. I guess since I do not know anyone around me that practices my magick, I would be open to try the ritual on my own.
 

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No I do not practice Magic at all, all this occult world is new to me. I did not grow up within any religion, however christian principles is what my parents tried to follow.... so I would say the God of the bible is what I would be most connected to. I've never perform any ritual so I don't know what would be best. I guess since I do not know anyone around me that practices my magick, I would be open to try the ritual on my own.
Well, I can advise you. Considering you're a complete novice. You need actions that you can physically understand. Such big signs for you to understand what to work with. Let's try this. You will make yourself an annealing diagnosis, tell me about the result, and we'll think about what direction to take next. If you are shy to write here the result, when you do it, write me a personal sms. I see this ritual as a way out of the situation, so that you can understand exactly whether there is anything or not. You need two wax candles. NATURAL (from beeswax). No paraffin, no artificial additives. Incense or dry herb with a heavy masculine odour. Juniper, cedar, tobacco, something like that. In silence, over the next few days, while the waning moon is just beginning, light the first candle. Light incense, and in your own words, from the heart as you feel say: ‘Fire - father, help, prompt, point out the bad. Take the incense as a gift’. While the first candle is burning and incense is smoking, take the second candle in your hands, roll it on your body, from feet to head, on hands. then light it from the first candle. Start rolling the lit candle at a distance of 10 cm from the body (it is not necessary to go closer, there is a danger of damaging the aura) from the right side to the left side and back from the bottom (approximately from the knees) upwards (above the head). It is important to notice, in what place the candle smokes or strongly ‘cries’. In these places we clean until the smoke disappears and the candle burns evenly. During the annealing we read the words: ‘I burn myself (Name) with holy fire, I burn out all evil from myself (Name). Go away, evil, smoke, soot, tears of the candle, and do not come back to me (Name). So be it!’ Say it so many times, while waving the candle near the body. Then the remaining candle can be put to burn out next to the first candle. Put the candle to burn out and say: ‘Thank you fire, for helping me, for cleansing’ Technical moments: make a candle ‘skirt’ for example from paper or foil, so that the wax does not drip on your hands. The data that I want to receive from you after: how much the candle burned, or it went out. In what place on the body it behaved unusually. What is your condition after this ritual. Perhaps after there was a call or SMS from a person who has not contacted you for a long time. Or other interesting strange situations. Since I am using a translator, some things may not be clear. If anything, please don't hesitate to ask. And use your logic. Magic is a flight of fancy. The main thing is to set the right mood!) Good luck)
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Well, I can advise you. Considering you're a complete novice. You need actions that you can physically understand. Such big signs for you to understand what to work with. Let's try this. You will make yourself an annealing diagnosis, tell me about the result, and we'll think about what direction to take next. If you are shy to write here the result, when you do it, write me a personal sms. I see this ritual as a way out of the situation, so that you can understand exactly whether there is anything or not. You need two wax candles. NATURAL (from beeswax). No paraffin, no artificial additives. Incense or dry herb with a heavy masculine odour. Juniper, cedar, tobacco, something like that. In silence, over the next few days, while the waning moon is just beginning, light the first candle. Light incense, and in your own words, from the heart as you feel say: ‘Fire - father, help, prompt, point out the bad. Take the incense as a gift’. While the first candle is burning and incense is smoking, take the second candle in your hands, roll it on your body, from feet to head, on hands. then light it from the first candle. Start rolling the lit candle at a distance of 10 cm from the body (it is not necessary to go closer, there is a danger of damaging the aura) from the right side to the left side and back from the bottom (approximately from the knees) upwards (above the head). It is important to notice, in what place the candle smokes or strongly ‘cries’. In these places we clean until the smoke disappears and the candle burns evenly. During the annealing we read the words: ‘I burn myself (Name) with holy fire, I burn out all evil from myself (Name). Go away, evil, smoke, soot, tears of the candle, and do not come back to me (Name). So be it!’ Say it so many times, while waving the candle near the body. Then the remaining candle can be put to burn out next to the first candle. Put the candle to burn out and say: ‘Thank you fire, for helping me, for cleansing’ Technical moments: make a candle ‘skirt’ for example from paper or foil, so that the wax does not drip on your hands. The data that I want to receive from you after: how much the candle burned, or it went out. In what place on the body it behaved unusually. What is your condition after this ritual. Perhaps after there was a call or SMS from a person who has not contacted you for a long time. Or other interesting strange situations. Since I am using a translator, some things may not be clear. If anything, please don't hesitate to ask. And use your logic. Magic is a flight of fancy. The main thing is to set the right mood!) Good luck)
Oh, one more major nuance. Don't do it in front of a mirror.
 

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Well, I can advise you. Considering you're a complete novice. You need actions that you can physically understand. Such big signs for you to understand what to work with. Let's try this. You will make yourself an annealing diagnosis, tell me about the result, and we'll think about what direction to take next. If you are shy to write here the result, when you do it, write me a personal sms. I see this ritual as a way out of the situation, so that you can understand exactly whether there is anything or not. You need two wax candles. NATURAL (from beeswax). No paraffin, no artificial additives. Incense or dry herb with a heavy masculine odour. Juniper, cedar, tobacco, something like that. In silence, over the next few days, while the waning moon is just beginning, light the first candle. Light incense, and in your own words, from the heart as you feel say: ‘Fire - father, help, prompt, point out the bad. Take the incense as a gift’. While the first candle is burning and incense is smoking, take the second candle in your hands, roll it on your body, from feet to head, on hands. then light it from the first candle. Start rolling the lit candle at a distance of 10 cm from the body (it is not necessary to go closer, there is a danger of damaging the aura) from the right side to the left side and back from the bottom (approximately from the knees) upwards (above the head). It is important to notice, in what place the candle smokes or strongly ‘cries’. In these places we clean until the smoke disappears and the candle burns evenly. During the annealing we read the words: ‘I burn myself (Name) with holy fire, I burn out all evil from myself (Name). Go away, evil, smoke, soot, tears of the candle, and do not come back to me (Name). So be it!’ Say it so many times, while waving the candle near the body. Then the remaining candle can be put to burn out next to the first candle. Put the candle to burn out and say: ‘Thank you fire, for helping me, for cleansing’ Technical moments: make a candle ‘skirt’ for example from paper or foil, so that the wax does not drip on your hands. The data that I want to receive from you after: how much the candle burned, or it went out. In what place on the body it behaved unusually. What is your condition after this ritual. Perhaps after there was a call or SMS from a person who has not contacted you for a long time. Or other interesting strange situations. Since I am using a translator, some things may not be clear. If anything, please don't hesitate to ask. And use your logic. Magic is a flight of fancy. The main thing is to set the right mood!) Good luck)
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Oh, one more major nuance. Don't do it in front of a mirror.
Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to write this out—it’s really helpful! I just have a few quick questions to make sure I get it right: Does the type of candle matter (long, pillar, tealight, glass jar)? Any specific amount of time that the ritual should last? Would keeping a small cross (no figure) in front of me help? Are regular taper candles in a holder okay? I have a few candle holders at home that I can use. And is there a best time to do this—night, day, or morning?

Even though you used a translator, it did a fantastic job. I’ll definitely be writing you back in private with my observations once I’ve done it. I’m already heading to Amazon to grab what I need, so I’ll be ready to go soon. Thank you for including the mirror part... I do have a full body mirror in my room, I will take it outside meanwhile.

Thank you again for putting so much thought into this!
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Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to write this out—it’s really helpful! I just have a few quick questions to make sure I get it right: Does the type of candle matter (long, pillar, tealight, glass jar)? Any specific amount of time that the ritual should last? Would keeping a small cross (no figure) in front of me help? Are regular taper candles in a holder okay? I have a few candle holders at home that I can use. And is there a best time to do this—night, day, or morning?

Even though you used a translator, it did a fantastic job. I’ll definitely be writing you back in private with my observations once I’ve done it. I’m already heading to Amazon to grab what I need, so I’ll be ready to go soon. Thank you for including the mirror part... I do have a full body mirror in my room, I will take it outside meanwhile.

Thank you again for putting so much thought into this!
Oh. Finally... does the color of the candle matter?
 
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Wow, thank you so much for taking the time to write this out—it’s really helpful! I just have a few quick questions to make sure I get it right: Does the type of candle matter (long, pillar, tealight, glass jar)? Any specific amount of time that the ritual should last? Would keeping a small cross (no figure) in front of me help? Are regular taper candles in a holder okay? I have a few candle holders at home that I can use. And is there a best time to do this—night, day, or morning?

Even though you used a translator, it did a fantastic job. I’ll definitely be writing you back in private with my observations once I’ve done it. I’m already heading to Amazon to grab what I need, so I’ll be ready to go soon. Thank you for including the mirror part... I do have a full body mirror in my room, I will take it outside meanwhile.

Thank you again for putting so much thought into this!
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Oh. Finally... does the color of the candle matter?
You don't need any church paraphernalia, you will be working with fire, that's an element. The colour of the candle is not very important, the main thing is the naturalness of the candle. I think that some candles - tea candles, taper candles, they are made with paraffin. Find not dyed, or black candles from beeswax (in candle magic black candles purification, red love, green money, but when there is no time or opportunities, people use any colour) . Do the ritual in the morning, afternoon or evening. You don't need to do it at night. The candle should be of such size that you had time for about 10-15 minutes to guide the body) Yes, in the mirror rituals should not participate, only if the ritual is not with the mirror on the instructions of the author, as mirrors are a portal, and a very good).
 

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You don't need any church paraphernalia, you will be working with fire, that's an element. The colour of the candle is not very important, the main thing is the naturalness of the candle. I think that some candles - tea candles, taper candles, they are made with paraffin. Find not dyed, or black candles from beeswax (in candle magic black candles purification, red love, green money, but when there is no time or opportunities, people use any colour) . Do the ritual in the morning, afternoon or evening. You don't need to do it at night. The candle should be of such size that you had time for about 10-15 minutes to guide the body) Yes, in the mirror rituals should not participate, only if the ritual is not with the mirror on the instructions of the author, as mirrors are a portal, and a very good).
I got everything I needed. I would keep you posted about the results within the week. Thanks for your help! 😊
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Do you practice magic at all? Any connection to any gods? A tradition that's close to you? Or do you want to perform the ritual on your personal power and energy?
You don't need any church paraphernalia, you will be working with fire, that's an element. The colour of the candle is not very important, the main thing is the naturalness of the candle. I think that some candles - tea candles, taper candles, they are made with paraffin. Find not dyed, or black candles from beeswax (in candle magic black candles purification, red love, green money, but when there is no time or opportunities, people use any colour) . Do the ritual in the morning, afternoon or evening. You don't need to do it at night. The candle should be of such size that you had time for about 10-15 minutes to guide the body) Yes, in the mirror rituals should not participate, only if the ritual is not with the mirror on the instructions of the author, as mirrors are a portal, and a very good).
Hi Baranova!

I already got the materials you mentioned before—the two natural beeswax candles and the juniper-scented incense! I also checked the moon calendar, and it looks like this upcoming Monday marks the beginning of the Waning Moon. Do you think there’s a particular day that would be best for the ritual? I'm so excited already—I seriously can’t wait to do it!

Since I’m still new to the forum and don’t have 20 posts yet and haven't met the other requirements, I realized I can’t send private messages. So, I guess I’ll just follow up here and keep everyone posted! 😂 Hopefully, that won’t affect the outcome of the ritual (fingers crossed), but either way, I’m too excited to wait!
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I got everything I needed. I would keep you posted about the results within the week. Thanks for your help! 😊
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Hi Baranova!

I already got the materials you mentioned before—the two natural beeswax candles and the juniper-scented incense! I also checked the moon calendar, and it looks like this upcoming Monday marks the beginning of the Waning Moon. Do you think there’s a particular day that would be best for the ritual? I'm so excited already—I seriously can’t wait to do it!

Since I’m still new to the forum and don’t have 20 posts yet and haven't met the other requirements, I realized I can’t send private messages. So, I guess I’ll just follow up here and keep everyone posted! 😂 Hopefully, that won’t affect the outcome of the ritual (fingers crossed), but either way, I’m too excited to wait!
Oh, by the way; the candles are yellow color!
 
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