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Hey everyone,
I’ve been reflecting on my life lately, and I wanted to share something that’s been on my mind. About 10 years ago, I was that guy—the one who seemed to have this magnetic charm that drew women to me like moths to a flame.
I remember how they’d go out of their way to spend time with me—bringing me food at work, taking me out for drinks, and even offering to pay for… well, let’s just say the fun didn’t stop at dinner.
One woman even came to my job and straight-up told me, “I’d like to… let’s just say, our dinner plans got upgraded to a group of three activity.”
. Another gave me a ring, saying she wanted to marry me (though marriage wasn’t on my radar at the time).
But then, life happened.
For the past 8 years, I’ve been buried in work—work, work, and more work.
I’d come home exhausted, with zero energy to do anything but sleep and prepare for the next grind. Slowly, without even realizing it, I lost touch with that vibrant, magnetic version of myself. That charm, that aura that made people gravitate toward me, just… faded.
Now, when I try to reconnect with that part of myself, it feels… off. I feel uncomfortable, almost scared, like there’s some invisible barrier holding me back.
I’ve tried socializing, putting myself out there, but it’s as if that spark is gone. I can’t help but wonder: Did someone cast a spell on me out of envy? Or did I simply lose that energy by neglecting myself—emotionally, spiritually, and energetically—while chasing money and success?
I’ve dabbled in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), and while some of the techniques have been helpful, I don’t think this is just about language or mindset. It feels deeper, like my very essence has been drained.
So, I’m turning to you, my fellow seekers of wisdom.
Does anyone have recommendations for a spell, ritual, practice or even some books to read that could help me reclaim that lost charm? Something to reignite that magnetic aura and help me feel like me again? Or, how can I check if someone has cast something on me? I’m new to all of this, but I’m eager to learn and open to any guidance you can offer.
Thanks in advance for your insights—I’m ready to rediscover the magic within.

With curiosity and hope,
Mysteryx88
P.S. If you’ve experienced something similar or have any tips, I’d love to hear your story! Let’s help each other shine again.
I’ve been reflecting on my life lately, and I wanted to share something that’s been on my mind. About 10 years ago, I was that guy—the one who seemed to have this magnetic charm that drew women to me like moths to a flame.



But then, life happened.
For the past 8 years, I’ve been buried in work—work, work, and more work.

Now, when I try to reconnect with that part of myself, it feels… off. I feel uncomfortable, almost scared, like there’s some invisible barrier holding me back.

I’ve dabbled in NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), and while some of the techniques have been helpful, I don’t think this is just about language or mindset. It feels deeper, like my very essence has been drained.

So, I’m turning to you, my fellow seekers of wisdom.


Thanks in advance for your insights—I’m ready to rediscover the magic within.


With curiosity and hope,
Mysteryx88
P.S. If you’ve experienced something similar or have any tips, I’d love to hear your story! Let’s help each other shine again.
