You’re mistaking experience for moralizing. I’ve done much work like that for people in the past. But I learned that there are better approaches. More than half the requests you get from people when doing work for them is the same shit. “I want so and so to love me and be everything the think about”. 97% the relationship fell apart or ended up in a nasty situation. The moment I noticed my error and changed my approach, no one has come back with complaints over the years.
If someone’s looking for a quick bang with a person they’ve had the hots for, then mayyyybe domination work is effective. For love? Do you even understand what love is? It’s not forced for damn sure.
Love is a bit of misnomer as for as wording and is quite limited as far what was meant in the past by love. English being a germanic language, germanic society being very more forthright than others according to ancient authors, probably due to the of threat inter-tribal conflict/honor culture. So what's meant as love in English, is probably not what is meant as love according Greco-Roman, Punic, Phoenician, Levantine, Egyptian, or Mesopotamian societies or even societies that are even father from the Germanic sphere.
As far as most love spells are conceived of in ancient, classical, or medieval times, I don't think what is called love is what we today would call love in the modern western world. Especially in the context of love spells taking roots from ancient pre-modern spiritual practices. One only has to look at the mythologies of various pagan cultures to get an idea of what is meant by love and the reasons someone might resort to that. If I had to classify what many call love spells today, drawn from older very very much unequal cultures, I would say what is meant by love is a combination of what the ancient Greeks would call
Eros-Mania. Still love, but not the kind we romanticize in Disney films, but more like the stuff found in Grimm's Fairy Tales.
Many ancient societies and even society today are rife with inequities. Many old school love spells, were contrived by people in situations that were less than ideal, who felt like they had no other choice. Think like a older wife who's husband might be cheating and threatens to leave her along with the kids in a era long before any inkling of civil rights. Another situation might be a enslaved person desperate to keep their family together in society overflowing with prejudice towards them. Then there's also the male side of things. A man who's not too successful financially or in some other crippling way. He might pine for the love of a women far from his league and station that wouldn't even give him a second look. Then again, maybe he suspects with wife or sweetheart of being unfaithful, potentially leaving him along with his kids. Really there is any number of situations where people might resort to what is called "
love magick". You can't really judge unless you find yourself in a similar catch 22 situation. It's easy to of course, but unless you have ever been in a truly desperate situation when potentially more than just a heart is on the line, you'll never really understand why or much less empathize with such people.
