[Help] Love spell

[esotericdykism]

Hey guys. So I’ve been doing some work with a 3ed venud talisman and some other stuff for attracting you know love in my life. I apparently fucked the wording because I kid you not the only thing that’s happened to me is being propositioned in exchange for drugs(???) and a old threesome from the one time I tried men unblocked me to say « sorry my girl thought you wanted to steal me we should run it back tho » and beg me. No females tho which was the goal. An almost comical level of fuck up you’d think I’d asked à monkeys paw

yes yes you can all make fun of me but if anyone has any advice to maybe not attract this that would be nice LMFAO

 

[HoldAll]

It could have well been the wording if it had been a chaos sigil magic operation. While the foundational books from the 1980s suggest "I want…" or "It is my will…" as the beginnings of formulas, people soon pointed out that such a spell would only serve to strengthen one's desire even more because the emphasis was on one's need instead of its fulfillment, and you really don't want that effect. "Desperation stinks", as they say, and women can smell a needy guy from a mile away. A solution would be avoiding the grammatical first person, i.e. your own needs and wants, altogether and say, for example: "Women are becoming more and more attracted to me" instead of "I want a romantic/sexual relationship".

I don't agree with the simplistic opinion that intention is all that matters in spells. Words guide our thinking, and I feel there's no room for ambiguity whenever you plan to impose your will on the universe, with the words of your spell pulling in one direction and your intention the other way.

 

[esotericdykism]

Thank you this is a good point. Also i am a female but same difference anyway. What was that meme where the girl was like « I wish I had a girl to kiss » and the guy replied saying « do you think because you’re gay that’s less pathétic »

 

[albundi]

It could have well been the wording if it had been a chaos sigil magic operation. While the foundational books from the 1980s suggest "I want…" or "It is my will…" as the beginnings of formulas, people soon pointed out that such a spell would only serve to strengthen one's desire even more because the emphasis was on one's need instead of its fulfillment, and you really don't want that effect. "Desperation stinks", as they say, and women can smell a needy guy from a mile away. A solution would be avoiding the grammatical first person, i.e. your own needs and wants, altogether and say, for example: "Women are becoming more and more attracted to me" instead of "I want a romantic/sexual relationship".

I don't agree with the simplistic opinion that intention is all that matters in spells. Words guide our thinking, and I feel there's no room for ambiguity whenever you plan to impose your will on the universe, with the words of your spell pulling in one direction and your intention the other way.

You can reverse engineer it to instill desire in the other person/s. And you're right about intention not being to only factor to a spell. I had many screw ups and it was always something I overlooked. Wording, wrong image, etc. it always came true down to the unintentional consequences.

For love tricks I tend to think of it from a variety of perspectives. What do I want them to think and feel? And what am I doing to become aligned with this desire? Neville Goddard's books helped a lot with confidence, letting go, and expecting results without feeling tied down to my feelings. They have videos on YouTube shorts that make it easy to understand and try.

Another trick is knot magic. Phrase the desire like it already happened with a hitch/slip knot, or any knot that can be undone day after day. Undo, and redo, the knot in the morning. Keep it on you, and expect for it to happen. If you find yourself worrying...undo the knot and go again. I have an inner belief that all the attention to the cord gives it energy. I keep all my worries on the knots and let it go. Most times I get what I want, and if it doesn't...in a few minutes it will.

Side note:
It's great because if you feel like you messed it up. It's easy to undo and redo. Just remember to use a knot that can be undone quickly, and practice to make the knot a habit.

 

[Spiritual doctor]

Ya in some spells uninitiated result appear

 

[Janus]

I recall doing a love spell for a female partner years ago, and I was in a bar and it was nearing last orders and a attractive female came over to me and started flirting, and then said to me " on you on your own ?" I said "Yes, Why ?" she said turning her head and gazing across the bar "Because my boyfriend is interested in getting off with you". Expect the unexpected ! It did make me laugh , it still does all these years later.

 

[therootbeersprite]

It may be easiest to break the working and try again in a more specific manner

 

[ribbit93]

Hi.
You could create your own Venus talisman based on Liber 777 and write your own ritual to go along with it?
It doesn't have to be that complicated, and once you get to grips with 777, it really isn't that daunting. e.g. for Venus you look at correspondences at line 7 and add them to you talisman. A ritual might look like:
1. Banish (LBRP, Bahlasti, Ompehda, Hekas, hekas, este bebeloi et.c)
2. Invokation (Venus, Amor Amorum [7 syllables, said 49 {7x7} times])
3. Charge (Venus, Lady of Love, let your presence be within these talismans as a token of your love, that we may love, be loved, and let love)
4. Banish

or use the above with your current Talisman!

I won't be much help if your trying an erotic binding spell on a perticular person, as that's not in my wheelhouse, but the PGM XXXII 1-19 has an interesting example. -edit- I use this example as it is between two women, which is both related to your earlier post, and I think fairly unusual in texts (to my knowledge)

Hope my ramblings make sense!!