Result of giving sexual energy

[Allofyoush]

I encountered an incubus last night in semi-lucidity for the first time. I don't typically meet daemons at night, but when I do, they're usually succubi and my dream self is not even moderately lucid at the time, so the encounters are typically nonconsensual (yes, I need to work on my warding). This was my first incubus encounter, and he was very sweet and gentle, even asking permission (I said yes). I'm curious what y'all think of "donating" sexual energy to daemons, and what could result. I would also like to encounter this incubus again, as they seemed very personable and charming. Any tips? They were tall, blond, and had no face. The tarot pictures them as the knight of wands, and when asked whom they serve, my deck responded with 9P, so this may even be a daemon that has been around for a while. I'm curious to know your thoughts!

 

[HoldAll]

Cautionary thread:

Succubi/Incubi are amazing

I think they are loving and kind beings who will always look out for their lovers. I see others calling them parasitic or evil but this is far from the truth. If you've been in a relationship with a loving succubus or incubus you will know they are not parasitic nor evil. They should not be...

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[FireBorn]

The consent he asked for, and that which you gave is the main point here. You were aware enough to choose. That's big. Choice/consent and discernment are everything here.

Spend some time thinking about what you would like to learn, or gain from future interactions (assuming thats what you want). Relationships, even with demons, are give and take. What are you willing to give, and what would you like to gain from said interactions? Learning about intimacy (not just sexual)? Working through hangups? Learning to accept yourself as you are? This can be something you learn from, not just experience.

You can ask, talk with this succubus. Work it out with him. Outline boundaries and what will/wont happen. Treat it like a relationship, not just an encounter. You will get much more out of it.

That choice is yours. Something to consider.

Lastly, I want to be careful not to assume the intentions of the succubus involved. This is where your discernment matters more than mine, or anyone else's words. If it felt off, trust that and withdraw consent. Not every encounter is good, and not every encounter is bad. This is why I suggested talking with him and discussing it, kind of like you would with a person. Clear boundaries can make or break the deal here.

Good luck.

 

[Beyond Everything]

I encountered an incubus last night in semi-lucidity for the first time. I don't typically meet daemons at night, but when I do, they're usually succubi and my dream self is not even moderately lucid at the time, so the encounters are typically nonconsensual (yes, I need to work on my warding). This was my first incubus encounter, and he was very sweet and gentle, even asking permission (I said yes). I'm curious what y'all think of "donating" sexual energy to daemons, and what could result. I would also like to encounter this incubus again, as they seemed very personable and charming. Any tips? They were tall, blond, and had no face. The tarot pictures them as the knight of wands, and when asked whom they serve, my deck responded with 9P, so this may even be a daemon that has been around for a while. I'm curious to know your thoughts!

Some quick thoughts

First, these may just be your own mind. You're not even lucid when these occur so don't automatically assume something is separate from you.

Second, on those occasions in the past when something like this has happened to me, I started focusing on taking their energy. After further self-development, they just stay away period.

Third, any disembodied 'entity' that needs your energy isn't going to help your evolution much. Superior non-physical beings are self-sufficient in energy.

Rather than wards, focus on internal integrity- solidifying your sense of self.