I dipped a little into the video and once I heard her use the word "ekstasis", I knew it would be worth later viewing.
I wanted to comment on this thread before, but due to time constraints and the intensely personal nature of my own experience, I am hesitant. The best I am allowed to say is that I think that a solid and developmental relationship with the Divine Feminine is crucial at a certain. It may seem voluntary to some, but I honestly think all souls have an appointment with "Her", when they are ready.
That is to say, perhaps the "Heavenly Bride" was the one who made the choice of "you".
Anyways, I think this song really captures an aspect of my own relationship, though not its totality: