Thoughts on NOFAP?

[Jackson]

Coffee is not enough.

 

[Xenophon]

Coffee is not enough.

We appreciate that, sir. However while seated at the counter here in Whataburger, we must ask you to refrain from anything besides drinking that coffee. Or at least move away from the window.

 

[Jackson]

Not to worry, there is a school nearby.

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[Baal]

I feel like nofap attracts succubus, which will do her thing while you sleep

 

[Shade]

I noticed that’s it’s beneficial to me but it’s only if I’m not too distracted. I find I’m more looking for that dopamine fix by working out or finishing a creative product than being drawn to sex but this has been years of the process, it started off with denial of urges and learning to put that energy/state of mind/release into something else.

(when I’m not dating someone otherwise we have sex however often they want and many days I’ll initiate because I’m out of the state of mind and more oriented towards them.)
But as soon as I’m single I focus on self again.

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I feel like nofap attracts succubus, which will do her thing while you sleep

It’s more common to happen to me when first getting out of a relationship, but a lot of things are hyper sexualized and that gets into your subconscious. It’s hard to avoid but doable.

 

[Shaman]

I did not enjoy. Everytime around me I see lewd women with tight or revealing clothing. So I can’t handle it.

 

[Magpie]

OP hit the nail on the head. With exception of excessive sex or fap, there is little difference.

Of course, with prolonged nofap cums distraction around fair ladies (and not so fair ladies too after a few days). I think it isn't worth it, unless you are trying to do something specific with it i.e. if it is part of an operation. Or if you are addicted to it. Or if you feel excessive shame. If none of this applies, I would say that Nofap is a wasted effort, because keeping yourself in check is quite draining.

I am saying that with a limited success of nofap (I lasted 2 months no sex, no porn, no fap) without any specific goal other than just trying it. Nothing to gain. Maybe if you last a very long time some super powers are granted to you by the Jewish Zeus, but I doubt it. I would go by "use it or lose it" maxim here.

That being said, I think NoPorn would be a purely beneficial effort, but that is a different topic.

 

[Shade]

I think it isn't worth it, unless you are trying to do something specific with it i.e. if it is part of an operation. Or if you are addicted to it. Or if you feel excessive shame. If none of this applies, I would say that Nofap is a wasted effort, because keeping yourself in check is quite draining.

Everyone is different so I agree that there is no right or wrong answer, unless you are addicted to it or as mentioned, addicted to it or addicted porn which is indeed a different topic. it can be draining to some to suppress urges.
One thing you did bring up is distraction around cute ladies (and not so cute after a while lol) I have noticed when I go longer periods of times and talk to girls I think are attractive at first it seemed awkward due to the attraction but over time and repeated instances, I’ve felt like with anything, it becomes more normal and more easy to not be distracted by that aspect the more it’s done, however… as you mentioned, it can seem as if there’s no point and it’s draining for no reason. I do think that it helps with confidence given enough practice or when you get the urge distracting yourself doing something that improves yourself wether a craft or working out is more beneficial in the long run bet absolute denial of urges I agree, is draining,
So I do agree with a lot of points you made, I do think there are some beneficial aspects to it that are overlooked though as long as you’re not like torturing yourself, overcoming uncomfortability is an aspect of growth.
A thread on porn addiction if one isn’t made already would be interestin.

 

[Magpie]

I do think that it helps with confidence given enough practice or when you get the urge distracting yourself doing something that improves yourself wether a craft or working out is more beneficial in the long run bet absolute denial of urges I agree, is draining,
So I do agree with a lot of points you made, I do think there are some beneficial aspects to it that are overlooked though as long as you’re not like torturing yourself, overcoming uncomfortability is an aspect of growth.

That is interesting - do you mean confidence as in you feel more attractive for women or confidence in your will and ability to resist the body? I 100% agree with the latter and I would class that as a specific purpose, part of asceticism.

 

[Shade]

That is interesting - do you mean confidence as in you feel more attractive for women or confidence in your will and ability to resist the body? I 100% agree with the latter and I would class that as a specific purpose, part of asceticism.

The latter, but also. When intercourse is pushed back in your mind you don’t really act any differently towards them. It’s like “it’s what’s on the inside that matters” type people which most of those people imo are full of sh- or for some fetish.. well sure to an extent personality can 100% override a girls looks and vice versa, I’m not gunna date a girl I’m not attracted to physically on some level. But at a certain point and encountering pretty girls often and urges emerge everyday time eventually it’s second stature to put them in then back of your mind or not on your mind at all in the moment, for Instance a girls body could be a 10/10 and personality amazing, sure I’ll shoot my shot at some point if we connect but the confidence to even talk to her is there because the urge to release just isn’t in the forefront if my mind, I’m able to push that to the side and seek a deeper connection, it takes time to get there but as mentioned.. theres Other ways some people swear by like ejaculating before going on a date so you’re less nervous to talk to a pretty woman but idk about others but after a few minutes I’m right back where I started ya know? Lol
If I have that mindset I can keep that mindset or I can just push it away and not think about it.
thats why I mentioned in my previous post after being in a relationship it takes a bit to focus on myself again and not think about sex.