what is wrong with me?

[wilgefortis]

I have only in recent years started to have disturbing events pertaining to obsession and borderline stalking when it comes to guys who I get somewhat romantically involved with.
To explain, I have never slept with any of them, I have not performed love spells on them and I am a pretty average looking woman, it's not like I'm some supermodel.
Anytime i get to chatting with a guy and after a while and I feel that I am not interested they get so angry and upset, they will start calling me at random hours of the night, hanging around routes I normally take, getting their friends to come to me to try to convince me to go back to them, telling me they need me and love after like a few weeks of talking and it has even escalated to a guy showing up outside my home.
This has been going on with numerous guys and I don't know why, has someone put some sort of hex on me or has something attached to me? Please help.

 

[Morell]

I would say that you leave those guys for good reason. Sounds like a good judgement of character.

Maybe some introspection is advisable, to find out why do you pick such bad people that you don't really want to be with and why... But others will advice you in this matter better than me.

 

[wilgefortis]

I would say that you leave those guys for good reason. Sounds like a good judgement of character.

Maybe some introspection is advisable, to find out why do you pick such bad people that you don't really want to be with and why... But others will advice you in this matter better than me.

well none of it happens when I am talking to them like, they're all normal guys who don't have a history of odd behaviours.
Normally it will be that we get to talking and I start to feel that it's not compatible, this behaviour has also happened after actually dating them after we break up, so I don't know what is going wrong here yk?

 

[Robert Ramsay]

well none of it happens when I am talking to them like, they're all normal guys who don't have a history of odd behaviours.
Normally it will be that we get to talking and I start to feel that it's not compatible, this behaviour has also happened after actually dating them after we break up, so I don't know what is going wrong here yk?

Men suck.

These are the kind of guys who put work into seeming normal until they get to the point where they think you owe them for all their 'hard work'.

As Morell said, you have fled for a good reason.

 

[HoldAll]

First and foremost, don't give out your phone number or address. And forget about being 'just friends' with (heterosexual) men. Speaking from ny own painful experience, women can't even begin to fathom how extremely humiliating it is for men to find themselves in the friend zone because us suckers will still go on hoping against hope that these 'friendships' will one day turn into romance.

I think some women are too trusting and underestimate the relentless hold sexuality has over men. As a guy whom women confide in (= serial friend zone victim), my ladyfriends would sometimes complain about the 'incomprehensible' behaviour of men, for example when one of them spent a nice evening with one of her 'friends' (thus a would-be suitor, from the male perspective), allowed herself to be brought home by him (first mistake) and then invited him upstairs for a last drink (second and humdinger of a mistake). Inevitably (again, from the male perspective), he wanted sex, and when she refused, he got mad and left. She was irritated and disappointed, I simply said she had been lucky for obvious reasons - which weren't obvious to her at all.

Now this is an occult forum, so I'll try to put an occult spin on this reply. I think you're leaving yourself too open, hex or not, and need to perform some protection magic, just in case. A guy approaching you with romantic intent should somehow subconsciously know that you're not to be trifled with in case he gets overconfident, despite you being the nice, likeable person you want to be seen as.

 

[SkullTraill]

This is not a dating advice forum. If you're going to reply to this thread, give occult advice.

 

[wilgefortis]

This is not a dating advice forum. If you're going to reply to this thread, give occult advice.

thanks, like this behaviour is strange this has only started happening to me recently with guys i haven't spoken to in a long time coming back and being strange, calling me at odd hours of the night etc so I was asking for advice just in case something might be attached to me causing these strange events

 

[Firetree]

First, I would try to ascertain what it is , by scrying or tarot or ..... I was thinking you might be a 'kavorka' .... I had a GF who was one, its incredible to see this played out .... people seem to get instantly bewitched just from being in her presence .

But you say its recent and with people you previously met ( not just anyone ? ) , so probably not that ^ ( as its sorta inborn ) .

There are a few possibilities so its best to ascertain the cause so you are not misdirecting energy away from the cause .

OR you could just focus on shielding yourself and containing ... there are a lot of techniques for that - a good system , any good system actually, should start with that .

There is also the 'repulsion' method - a friend of mine was bugged by her landlord wanting to come around , he rang her up and asked if he could come over and talk about blah blah blah .... when he got there she was ; '' Its good you rang first because , at this time of the month , I like to walk around the house and ....... ''

(I'm not going to repeat it here as it's too disgusting ..... but he stopped 'visiting ' )

 

[Shade]

in esoteric matters and in life there is a pendulum, right now there are two extremes of men going their own way and finding purpose elsewhere and then you have guys that are trying to find purpose by being with someone, men by nature are designed to want to be loved and protect, but with technology it has left a lot of people feeling without purpose or comapring themselves with toehrs and thinking they need a relationship to be happy. People turn to magic for the same reason and both are equally ill advised. it all comes from within first and foremost. A red flag for occultists imo is if they are doing something out of anger or detachment, they fall into what they call "mental masturbation" and this is also true in the physical as well, people will seek purpose outside themselves. We all want to feel loved and to be able to express love and in times like these when so many people are so caught up in materialistic things any sign of true attention or interest the person, especially a male will try to hold onto that as titely as they can because without it they can feel incomplete if they do not focus their energy elsewhere.
A person with a hobby outside of just looking for a relationship is something to look for, just like the in occult sphere you do not get into magic just to gain one thing, it is all encompassing and it takes time to learn and alchemize your practice just like going from a relationship to a marriage. It's about union.
Just my 2 cents with an esoteric spin.