Oppression seems very much a two-way street. I have taken guff because I don't "celebrate" the identity du jour. The notion of mandatory "re-education" for such as I has been floated in the Benighted States of America in recent years. Heck, it's already a condition of employment in most larger companies.
In any case, it would seem that one cannot script what anarchists are supposed to do and think. But then that's because a lot of what gets called anarchy is a stalking horse. That is, a tool to foment disorder the better to seize power. So it works ever so much better if genuine anarchy is nudged aside for "the right sort" of anarchist, no?
it doesn't matter if you like it or agree with it or want to be involved with individuals of those communities, but they have every right to exist free of oppression and violence .
You are the master of your universe. I am the master of my universe. Our universes can meet, collaborate, comingle, etc. But the second you try to impose your will on my universe and dictate the way i run my universe is when we have problems.
And "not agreeing" with these concepts is the first step towards oppressing those communities. It's much too easy for the average human to belittle those they "don't agree with", I'm very guilty of it myself still to this day. But one should seek to allow others to live how they please so long as they are not imposing their will or oppressing the rights and liberties of anyone.
And I already know your argument is gonna be "Well they're imposing their views on ME", which i'll counter by saying you're doing the same by disagreeing. That's the nature of debate and discussion. It's perfectly fine to disagree, i could care less if you don't like the modern ideologies surrounding gender and sexuality, but on their own they are not harming anyone and these individuals have a right to exist free of violence and oppression.
No one chooses to be LGBT, it's an inherent part of your identity. And to discriminate or judge or "not agree" with something that is just simply part of someone's structure of being is pretty small minded and bigoted. Like I judge people on "who" they are, not "what they are.